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The sad decline of Michael Costin Jr.

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You might remember in 2000 how Michael Costin Sr. died after being beaten by fellow hockey dad Thomas Junta, upset that someone elbowed his son in a practice Coston supervised at a rink in Reading, Mass. It remains one of the most notorious cases of sports parents run amok. Junta is still in jail on his involuntary manslaughter conviction, his parole denied for a second time, in 2008.

Also in jail: one of attack’s witnesses, Michael Costin Jr.

From the Gloucester Times:

…after the case was over and the attention faded away, Michael Costin Jr.’s life spiraled into drug and alcohol abuse and violence, court records show.

[Monday], Costin, now 20, was sent to Middleton Jail for 18 months, after pleading guilty to beating up his 43-year-old girlfriend and stealing her car two days before Christmas.

Prosecutor Michelle DeCourcey said Salem police were called to a Leach Street apartment on the afternoon of Dec. 23 by Costin’s girlfriend, who said he had grabbed her by the throat, punched her in the face and told her, “You’re going to die tonight.”


The above photo is Michael Costin Jr. testifying during Junta’s 2002 trial. The Gloucester Times went into more detail about how he frequently has ended up in court again, but as a defendent.

Costin has already served time for assaulting the same woman and has racked up a multipage record in the past three years.

Judge Richard Mori [who has heard other cases involving Costin] said Costin has received a lot of support, including requests for leniency from police officers familiar with his family history.

Costin’s lawyer, James Craig, urged the judge to give his client another shot at probation, suggesting a brief jail term and then strict supervision by a probation officer. He even noted that the victim in the case has offered to take Costin back in when he is released, though he added that Costin no longer wants to be involved with the woman.

But the judge said Costin has failed to take part in programs offered by the probation department in some of his prior cases to help him deal with some of his issues, including a serious substance abuse problem and mental health problems that may stem from the death of his father.

“I’m really sorry about the thing with your father, but you’ve got to grow up,” Mori told him. “It’s got to stop. You just can’t do this anymore.”

At Junta’s trial, Costin Jr. told the court: “I saw Thomas Junta beating my dad into the ground. For the rest of that day and for the next day, my heart was in my throat. Please teach Thomas Junta a lesson: Let the world know that a person can’t do what Thomas Junta did to my dad, to my family and to me … we all want Thomas Junta to go to prison for as long as your honor can put him there.”

So is Michael Costin Jr. in this downward spiral because of his witnessing the beating death of his father?

I’ll leave that to the mental health professionals. But I will make one guess: it didn’t help. Neither did not having his father as he entered his teenage years. (I don’t know whether Michael was the son who reportedly climbed into the casket with his father during his wake.)

I’ll make another guess — the roots of the younger Costin’s criminal behavior are deep. His father, an unemployed handyman, had numerous convictions, including weapons possession and assaulting a police officer. The younger Costin’s grandfather fatally stabbed his uncle when he was 17 and was convicted of manslaughter. Costin, an unemployed handyman, had a record of convictions on charges including weapons possession and assaulting a police officer.

The grandfather also told NBC’s “Today” in 2000 that his son, Michael’s dad, had a drinking problem that ran in the family.

Michael Costin Jr., for whatever reason, is fulfilling a family tradition — no happy endings.

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  1. Your post is very well crafted and I have learned. Ive added your blog to my reading material. Thanks for the update!

  2. […] Without knowing what’s been going on with Philo over the last six years, it would be a real stretch to say that the “Cry Baby Award” turned him from honor student into alleged criminal. Just like how you can’t say for sure that Michael Costin Jr. grew up to abuse drugs, alcohol, and his 23-years-his-senior girlfriend because his father was killed by another hockey dad in a notorious 2000 case. […]

  3. This story opens by making it seem as though Junta was angry over rough play so he killed Costin. This couldn’t be farther from the truth. I suggest revising this slander


    July 28, 2010 at 8:35 pm

  4. Jake you are flat out wrong Junta killed Costin because he was angry over rough play. Jake you are not only wrong you are an idiot!


    August 16, 2010 at 6:39 pm

  5. If you read the real story Costin was in the wrong and Junta was trying to protect himself. Look slike the apple doesnt far from the tree with JR.


    August 27, 2010 at 12:50 pm

  6. “Junta was trying to protect himself. ”

    from someone half his size. LOL. Please.

    Junta is a thug, got in Costin’s face, and then beat him to death long after any “self-defense” claim would be valid.

    Even in a self-defense situation, you are never allowed to continue beating someone who is on the ground and no longer threatening you. Then you have become the assailant.


    September 14, 2010 at 6:34 pm

  7. This is for Bill the bloody moran junta beat my husband mike to death in front of my sons michael Brendan and Sean you stupid human being my child michael never wanted to end up this way you cold bloody asshole. I sugest youknow the facts JUNTA murded my Husband Michael Augustine costin. Bill you need help PRICK. Linda Costin

    linda costin

    November 15, 2010 at 12:35 am

  8. Linda, My heart goes out to you, no one deserves what your family has gone thru, you don’t know me but I know of your family, I grew up with your husband and was in love with his Brother.


    November 23, 2010 at 11:20 pm

  9. Debbie thank you. so you were in love with denny. you shpould e-mail me sometime. . I would love to hear from you. thanks again, god bless you.take care of yourself, linda .

    linda costin

    November 26, 2010 at 9:10 pm

  10. im soo sorry for micheal i went to school with him my heart goes out to him hes a good kid and sometimes bad things happen to good people why does everyone always have to be so negative … instead of trying to put the kid down why the hell dont they try to help him just let the kid live i love you micheal not everyone on this earth is a peice of sh*t god bless you and yours ❤


    December 28, 2010 at 12:56 am

  11. Sharon

    February 8, 2011 at 11:50 pm

  12. I just learned that Michael Costin Jr. (POS) lives across the cranberry bogs from my mom’s house in Falmouth with his OLD lady. She says they don’t take care of the property they’ve lived in for about 1.5 years and he doesn’t work or leave the house except to smoke and go to Wal-Mart and spend food stamps. She used to know the original owners of the house Wayne & Ann Nichols who were real nice and keep the place up but their daughter Debbie and Michael seem like social degenerates.

    With a 23 year difference it can’t be too hard for her to impress a 23 year old by buying cigarettes, beer, video games, bubble gum and Saphris medication. (Not sure which one takes these pills for schizophrenia and bipolar but they both need their heads examined thinking this is going to end well).

    Lastly she has heard many weekly arguments coming from the house and hopes she doesnt see another police car or ambulance at the house. Once a beater always a beater, check the public records showing additional beating of his OLD lady going back to 2008 and beyond, B&E and drug charges… she obviously has some serious self esteem issues.
    Falmouth Police Log 2010

    10-686 2007 CHECK WELFARE Arrest(s) Made
    Location/Address: TURNER RD
    Refer To Arrest: 10-686-AR
    DOB: 07/22/1988

    Morality Issues

    August 8, 2011 at 4:31 pm

  13. OMG what a horrible horrible person you are.your old mother should be ashamed of herself for raising such an ass%%%% like you.She really thought you to have some NICE MORALS.tell your old mother to move our mind her own son has been doing good for the past couple of years .he has so much remorse about the bad mistakes he has made with his life.the guilt of hurting his lovely girlfriend debbie haunts him.Michael i am proud of him at least he went to get help.i am so sick after i read this .before you start runing your mouth get your facts make me sick. walk a day in his shoes. you cold hearted ANIMAL.TELL YOUR OLD MOTHER.COUPLES ARGUE. ALSO THE POLICE AND AMBULANCE WERE THERE DUE TO MEDICAL emergency..may God forgive you both..another thing it seems to me like you and mammy have no lifes at all pretty sad when you have nothing better to do but judge people.i will pray for you to find compassion in your life.can you imagine watching your mother getting beat to death right in front of you .I WONDER HOW YOU WOULD BE AFTER SEEING SOMETHING LIKE son watched that at a young age jesus mary and joesph .leave him alone. just tell me your name you bloody animal.SHAME ON YOU.another thing you ignorant Animal may karma kick you and your old bag right in the face.Michael when you read this comment remember the old bag across the bog is just an ignorant cow.I am very proud of you and debbie you both have come along way.may god forgive you ya cold hearted Animal.y

    linda costin

    September 2, 2011 at 2:14 pm

  14. By the grace of God there go I. The property in question is proudly cared for by Michaels employer a prominent ex=town official. The degenerate OLD LADY has been helping the degenerate through his successful rehab, Today he holds a job and is a productive member of society…giving back to the community. Unlike you who seeks harm on the innocent by your on paranoid behavior. Mental illness left untreated is very dangerous. Take a look inside my friend and we dont forget the damage your daughter did to those innocent people whille tying to hook up with some Coast Guard Mates…all over the internet. She also stalked my son who is in the Coast guard. Again By The Grace Of God…..


    September 2, 2011 at 9:12 pm

  15. Wow
    As the daughter of the person in question and the reason my mom met this person…Are you serious??? My mom raised a very successful family, left my loser father and took my ex-boyfriends brother in. She is our savior and a very accepting woman. She is by far a degenerate. She is Gods Gift as the accepting of all transforming evil. How dare you ever question the one person who forgives and tries to rectify all faults. What is wrong with you?????????????


    September 3, 2011 at 12:28 am

  16. […] which took viewers through a litany of bad parent behavior, up to and including the killed-a-man Thomas Junta and the wanted-to-find-someone-to-kill-a-woman Texas cheerleader mom, ask why crazy sports parents […]

  17. Linda, hope you read this glad your okay and alive I lost touch with you was thinking something happened to you. Debbie O i did change my email address.


    September 25, 2011 at 10:10 pm

  18. I stumbled onto the link after cleaning up broken glass from a recent car accident in front of my house a few weeks ago when a Wi-Fi hot spot showed up on my phone called costin.guest. I assumed it was from a neighbor that rents out rooms and cottages in the back of their property and instead discovered the last name of my neighbor’s boyfriend Michael. I had no idea of any of the background of Michael but I think even Morality Issues can admit Michaels fathers tragic death in his presents would be something that will leave permanent scares on anyone. This is in no ways a comparison but after being present when my father passed this June, after suffering for 7 years with cancer. There’s never enough time to share with loved ones or words to say good bye and I’ll think of my father several times a day for the rest of my life.
    MOST importantly and the only reason I would post anything on the internet is reading the rant and assumptions made by Morality Issues, I have a hard time following who’s who and the responses afterwards but this one stood out.
    Having lived in my current home for 13 years all of the neighbors pretty much keep to themselves and don’t judge how they choose to live or keep their homes, etc. One exception was becoming friends with Wayne and Ann Nichols who I had the privilege of knowing and unfortunatley giving a eulogy at his wake, he would have been a great father figure and mentor for Michael if he was still with us.
    I have no idea who you are (Morality Issues) or who you think you are but I have a few words of wisdom. First off when you judge other, you do not define them, you define yourself. I live across the street and maybe don’t know all the facts and frankly it’s none of my business but make sure you have all the facts before you post such negative comments which from my perspective have defined who you are! (Also any arguing your mother may have overhead may have come from my house… after 27 years of marriage it’s OK to verbally air differences but more importantly to learn to pick your battles and walk away if it becomes heated)
    The only problem I’ve had is a letter from the Falmouth Heath Department complaining about my trash blowing down the street. I picked up the trash but the source was and unfortunately still is from the trash barrels and bags placed in front of their driveway. I at least had the courtesy of identifing myself and spoke to Michael and Deb personally when I visited their house. So if you really have something to say, say it to their face not on the internet.
    I keep a list of Words to Live By in my wallet that I’ve had for almost 20 years that I’ll post under this response should Morality Issue read this post but here are some basics. Life is short, every day is a gift, pay it forward, inspire your children & make them improved versions of yourself, honor & remember those that have passed, no one leaves this world alive and don’t judge others unless you’ve walked a mile in their shoes… look inside and leave the judgment to God.

    And at the risk of being political incorrect MERRY CHRISTMAS!


    December 20, 2011 at 9:40 am

  19. Compiled list of Words To Live By (I last read this to my father a few weeks before he passed… he couldnt speak but he smiled and nodded to each one. I also laminated a copy in my grandaughters toy chest I made for her 1st birthday this past spring. I recommend reading it daily… especially if youve had a bad day!)

     All the best things in life… are not things at all.
     Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
     Accept that some days you’re the pigeon, and some days you’re the statue.
     Be careful stepping on someone’s toes today… they may be connected to the ass you need to kiss tomorrow.
     If there were no cloudy days we couldn’t enjoy the sunny ones.
     Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.
     Always read stuff that makes you look good if you die in the middle of it.
     Drive carefully. It’s not only the cars that can be recalled by their maker.
     If you can’t be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.
     If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.
     It maybe that you’re sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others.
     Never buy a car you can’t push.
     Never put both feet in you’re mouth at the same time, because then you won’t have a leg to stand on.
     Nobody cares if you can’t dance well… just get up and dance.
     Since it’s the early worm that gets eaten by the bird… sleep late.
     The second mouse gets the cheese.
     When everything’s coming your way, you’re in the wrong lane.
     Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live.
     You maybe only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
     Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.
     If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.
     A truly happy person in one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.
     The more mistakes you make, the smarter you get. So don’t be afraid of making mistakes.
     God gave you two ears and one mouth…. so you should listen twice as much as you talk.
     Happy is the person who can laugh at himself. He will never cease to be amused.
     Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional.
     Wrinkles don’t hurt.
     Always forgive your enemies, nothing annoys them more.
     It’s the small things in life that can make someone else happy.
     Every day, do something nice and try not to get caught.
     Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.
     You miss 100% of the shots that you never take.
     You’ve got one life to live… you can make it chicken salad, or chicken shit (Lloyd Bridges in movie Cousins)
     The biggest mistake people make in life is NOT making a living at doing what they most enjoy.
     I know God promises not to give me more than I can handle. I just wish he didn’t trust me so much.
     “I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.” — Bill Cosby
     You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
     Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
     Over prepare, then go with the flow.
     No one is in charge of your happiness, but you.
     Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.


    December 20, 2011 at 9:54 am

  20. rkcookjr . your a fuckin pussy, bitch , coward. u remind me of a female. talkin shit, what u have nothing bettter to do with ur life. put ur real name down and see if i dont find u and fuck u up you fuckin little bitch and that goes for every 1 of u that r talkin shitt be a put ur name down come say that shit to my face ill fuck u up, bunch of coward. any day of the week u let me no . see now im not goin to incriminate my self so if ur feelin froggy u let me no via this bullshit article and hey maybe we can get together, have a nice lil sit down what do ya say. fuck u but have a nice day

    A very very very close relative to both michael costin sr and jr

    April 22, 2012 at 8:37 am

  21. Well stated neighbor! Just for the record, Michael does not live in Falmouth. He is a close family friend who did come out here in attempt to make positive changes in his life and that he was doing. He got a job, but it was a stuggle on behalf of both of us. I have had my share of heartache with a divorce and the loss of my ever loving Dad and my sister this passed November. I am not in a position to continue to help him but I have faith that with the way he he was able to come back from all that he went through, that will be behind him and he will continue to grow in a positive way. With that said the neighborhood can relax. He does not live here, he resides about 100 miles from here. I will wish him the best always and sorry that the timing was bad for me to continue to help him yet know in my heart that he is a very loving and caring person who will do great things with his if he sets his mind to it. These statements make him out to be a monster and he is not. He is a survivor who choses to do things right today. We will all have our judgement day…leave it up to God.


    May 12, 2012 at 10:09 am

  22. I can see why the Costins have so many problems. They live and talk like the worst garbage on the streets. It’s really pathetic.


    June 5, 2012 at 11:57 am

  23. Alice and to all who have responded: There is a reason we look at this page, Whatever it is? In this country we are at epic propotions with domestic violence and yes I am a survior. And yes at the hands of Michael…someone I thought was worth saving. The vicious comment that you are responding to is how it is with the family. No matter what you do to try to help this so called tragedy. is the crutch for the abuse to continue. There is a theme of histrionic abuse with this family that no-one wants to address. My daughter has a beautiful son…my grandson with Mikes brother Sean. Sean does not see him due to his horrific abuse towards my daughter. All of the children received a trust fund of close to or more than 60 thousand dollars. One of them used that money right, Brendon a college grad from U Mass Amherst, then Tara who is struggling yet trying real hard. Sean has a four year old son as I have said never shared a dime of that money with Mom aside from 2 cars that he wrecked and an apartment he lost due to the violence he subjected my daughter to. She lost the baby at 2 months to DSS as she loved Sean and kept letting him back. Ris went away to Worcester(a safe house) to get away. Proud to say she made it but poor Sean can’t see his son and does nothing but blame everyone aside from himself. Both the same Mike and Sean spent all the money on self destruction and are real bad seeds. No one ends up behind bars by accident. All the care in the world doesn’t change poor them…it does change those that have survived…my daughter and I. will be ok because…we are have been all along…in survival mode…who is the real victim? Time for someone else to take this on. We who have compassion may believe in change however the real tragedy lies within the person we are trying to change…maybe they like and believe in who they are…maybe thats who they are…and all they want to be…rest in peace…this page…onto another future victim…or hopefully survivor.


    July 1, 2012 at 10:04 pm

  24. Mike comes off as a recent person but quickly reverts to begin a savage loserrr


    September 1, 2012 at 12:49 am

  25. Just for the record… that 18 months in jail did not change 24 year old Michael Costin…He has managed to rack up 3 more court cases in the past 3 yrs. He received disability in 2010…spends all of the 1170 on drugs cigarettes and alcohol…despite being under a doctors care and couldn’t care less about therapy. I guess I was the only one who cared to try to stop him as I am the one who helped him and suffered continued abuse by him. He had a chance at a good life however he doesn’t have it in him…Narcissist…A Mental Health Diagnosis that cannot be treated…all the men in the family have it aside from Brendon…I hope for him. Also for the record, Attorney James Craig stated Michael no longer wanted to be with me…He was the great salesman that kept his foot in the door…he would not let me go…3 yrs later we are in the same place…I will not accept his abusive behavior and he thinks its me. He does not look in the mirror at true self…its an image he wants to see staring back. The only reason I comment today is the e-mail I got which lucy is right he does come off decent…two minutes later the hard wiring disappears and the devil…Mike is back. Some people are just bad. Heaven on earth…Jesus said we will suffer because the devil is among us. I believe that. This is just part of me taking my life back. I work in the mental health field and see true cases of suffering…homelessness, domestic abuse…hunger and I work hard to help change that. Mike is using government money to be lazy, stay numb from the drugs and alcohol…I know him he can work…anyone can you just have to have the desire. Why would he when he has a check handed to him…BIG MISTAKE…WEAPON IN HAND…Guess we will be reading about him for a long time to come…Til death do us part….Hence the restraining order……………If you read my earlier comment…who is the true victim here with this tragedy…my daughter, her son myself…my whole family who continue to suffer or The Costins?


    September 8, 2012 at 9:22 pm

  26. The end of a destructive relationship…go to The Last Straw, Aftermath of Abuse…read what i am have been through to end the abuse cycle…he has not destroyed me…I have a sensational support network out here on Cape Cod. Friends through and through. The Costin Family prided themselves on being victims…bad seeds more like it…I am a survivor as well as my daughter to their abuse…all of them….pure manipulation. I got engaged tonight to a Falmouth police officer who knew mike and said…this is the end of him and all of him with respect to you…I have been called to your home 3 times and my dept….12 times, in the past two years I will take my time friends who visit this page…as it is not about the Costins solely…I am not sure they even know about this page…David and I plan an Oct/ 13 wedding, he wants me to have time to heal and to plan. We are going to marry in our circle of friends. Some of us actually get out of the abuse. Thank you all who have posted and sorry for those we removed…I used to think this was about Mike and now know it was about me as well. Many have said where is Deb while inquiring this site from the Salem Ma incident.. The flooding e-mails. I would rather have you e-mail me than post on this site therefore I will seperate from it…ignore it. As you can see I have taken my life back………………No more will I suffer his abuse……………….Just needed to get him out of my life to realize how important I am….David gave me that back. Onto a beautiful life…..


    September 15, 2012 at 11:03 pm

  27. Dear Anonymous….I thought you had to leave your name to post here. I am so confused that someone knows my story that well that they can pretend to be me. That post is my story however I am not engaged and where is my story told? Who is David and why would Falmouth come up? I no longer live in Falmouth. How do you know my daughters story? Right I did post earlier. My mistake…too much information…was responding as every post here sends an e’mail to me which I will block as I feel compelled to respond and I don’t care enough to anymore. I shared my truth and maybe not such a good idea on the internet as someone feels they can post my non-factual story. I am shocked to see this. Who ever did this must be close to me and this is not helpful…I trust few…this is not a game as Mike pretended to be me while talking to my longtime friend. You took my words and used them against me whoever you are. I will not ever post or see this site again…not helpful as I move on. I worked out some anger here. I saw the good in Mike, tried to be there for him and he destroyed who I was. I am so much better now, No more fight or flight. Who ever you are, you know my text as well. Guess it doesn’t matter. Maybe you THINK THAT YOU ARE PROTECTING ME? No longer matters. Damage done and my fault for responding with the content I did. Humility is everything, as it makes us stronger. Mike did me wrong and now we are on equal playing field. I suppose there are no secrets in love or out of it as well. Theres no room for hate, in love. He hated me and now I see it and do not like him either. I do not hate him. I do wish him well and this is my last comment here. Blocking this site for my own health and process of moving on. Still confused, how did you not leave your name as it has to match your email address?


    September 16, 2012 at 8:13 pm

  28. Really Deborah are you still trying to protect him? The guy is a drug abusing, lying cheating. loserrr. You are the only on who gave him the time of day. He has the worst rep and he earned that. Why do you care? Don’t you know you are worth so much more Just talk to me. You know who wrote that. I have been there for you all along. Think about it. I am not going away anytime soon. I have been on the inside with him. I have been in your home and know your story, every last detail. Let me into your life to protect you. You will figure it out…look at the reports Carmen gave you. Who is David…look it up Deborah…Now that you did just know I care. Really Deborah I am not going to stop protecting you. You are beautiful and have so much life in you. I know because your home is beautiful and you are a huge success in the community with your career and I saw the way you handled yourself in crisis. Why would you take that from ah a so called man. I know him at his worst and he is so contrary wrong about you. Mike peaked my interest in you as he had such hate for you… He wouldn’t hate you if you were not good. Hates himself and doesn;t want anyone with you. Too late I have your number, when I call we can just meet for dinner and talk. Really Deborah you can trust me. And I know you still live in Falmouth…I protect your neighborhood…Trust me…did you figure it out?


    September 16, 2012 at 8:57 pm

  29. He def is a loser. A adict to any drug. Deb you hav to mov on. He used you baby sorry to sa. U are worth the prise of gld. Y lisen to that moron tat callz says anynomous. I hav ur numbar 2 becuz I wuz 1 of mikes conections. u are mor then a dim so put togrtha and fukin sexy. Mik is a fuk up and lost hiz own gam. Baby Im gona cal u n I have ben in your hous.. The REEL WIFE. MAK YOU MINE.Thankx murder or Mike lynn. Whateva u cal urself She belongs ta me now. Ritet Deb. Ansa wen I call or I will be aknockin Deb. I dont take nnnoo for an ansa. Sory if I scared u I jest gonna be ur man now. I wil treeet you rite U did the rite thin gettin rid of him. I wil tell you bout the gret bay he is a fuked up mes. y wuld he leve a perfeckt women lik u. c ya soon deb. we al now about this pg. keepin trac of wat ur doin.

    u know it

    September 17, 2012 at 9:56 pm

  30. Honestly this is the last time I will speak up here. My daughter text me to what is being said on this site. I can barely read it. I trust no one and this is not the format for nosey people to gain some weird control over me.My life is not your business. This is not a dating site for pathetic losers. I wouldn’t take any of your threats seriously. Ok so you know me, been in my home. I lost my sense of privacy because of Mike, and am taking that back. I am selling my family home to rid myself of painful memories and to start my life over,. here on Cape Cod, I love my job and worked hard to make it here. That has paid off. To the jerk that cannot spell I want you to knock on my door, and for the idiot maybe cop go ahead try and protect me. You will need a suit of amour by the time I am done with you. I have already reported this to the State Police and they will find your URL and I will know who you are. Your e-mail address idiot. Do you really think I am that stupid??? Smarter than that. You cannot intimidate me. No you don’t know me, just thought you did. Bring all of your threats on. You will get to know me real quick. Again I wish to never visit this site again. Painful memories that I now keep in my long distance past.


    September 18, 2012 at 10:10 pm

  31. rely rely y 50 idc i hav por spelin i sen yu toda nic n red y u jus pic my callz up. i no evrythin bout n i hav u buznes cad nic pics yur on facbok i rote tat rite frm u cad u help me wen my fam neded it. electrik gas of. yur movin i sen ppl movin toda u wer not arond wer yur goin. jus wana tak wit yu. i am not scarin u jus wana b in ur lif u r so prety n nic

    u now it

    September 21, 2012 at 8:09 pm

  32. Deborah,
    What is going on here? You have to get away from all of these people. I Just Want you to have the beautiful life that you talk about because I do care. Maybe my post was too strong. I feel that after falling for the Costin story which I gave to and knowing you and Mike. He is a person that doesn’t deserve any of your time. He is no good from his early existence. Some people are born bad and Deb do not protect him for one more day. Great recognition from THE FALMOUTH POLICE DEPT for coming in the night of Aug 31. You took your life back then. We rally for your support. You could have been another statistic. Carmen thinks about you like a rock. She said you speak your truth well and the judge was utterly impressed at your courageness. I looked this site up to find out more and found you through the process on face book with your company cute picture and you look happy at your open house. Congrats it was a huge success. I wanted to grab your attention by posting we were getting married. Can we at least talk about this….I am sorry very sorry I just care. I Know you are freakng out as this is not a dating site…you dont answer the phone. I dont know how else to talk to you. I found this site because I was looking for your story. I saw the devastation. WE ALL WISH HIM THE WORST HIS HISTORY IS BAD BY HIS CHOSING…THE WHOLE FAMILY OF DEVIL WORSHIPERS NO GOOD HERE.. DEB THE HISTORY IS REALLY HORRIFIC ABUSE THAT I READ>>>HIS HISTORY WITH YOU WHY WOULD YOU STAY? Stay AWAY. Lets just trust…you can trust me and we should talk offline. I will text you my contact info. Its up to you. I had to visit this site to reach you You don’t answer the call. Sorry Deborah, little princess, If you never look here again. Let it be known HE AND HIS FAMILY SCREWED THE WORLD OVER, THEY ARE ALL CRME RIDDLED> ALL 4 CHILDREN HAVE BEEN ARRESTED. MONEY WELL SPENT. Post to explain myself yet she really doesn’t look here. She deserves the peace and love I am going to give her. I will take care of her .


    September 21, 2012 at 9:57 pm

  33. In today’s society when events like this hit main stream media, it opens the doors for all opinions, no matter how vulgar or incorrect. Michael’s (dad) case was tragic. It was simply a much larger man who did not want to stop at one punch and became a murderer. As far as Michael Jr, I hope no one has to speak from the same experience as what Michael went through, but it is hoped that with age, he will choose his own path and make the right choices. In my opinion, before you comment on such a sensative subject that involves children, choose your words wisely and don’t be so harsh. I imagine none of the people who posted on this article would like to see this written about themselves or their family.


    K Costin

    Kim Gargano

    September 27, 2012 at 9:11 am

  34. The thing is you all make mike out to be some kind of cruel monster, when that infact isn’t the case, yes he was delt an aweful hand and made quite a few wrong choices, hes payed and continues to pay for that. Most of these comments are rather comical, cause believe me I’ve heard dear old deb and how SHE manipulated mike, then again thats what older “adults” can do have power over younger adults, including his brother when he was anythi ng but an adult but I wont delve into that, just know she is no innocent in any of this. We’re all thankful he finally got away from you, his drinking has improved dramatically, hes working, he has goals set, and the thing about being in our twentys we’re YOUNG, mistakes are part of it all, we have room to mess up and make up for it and do what we need to, to better ourselves but when you’re all alone in your late 40’s you just don’t, so your ways won’t ever change deb, you’ll just get more old && washed up, no room for change or growth just wrinkles and self loathing. You never were that much of a help, just used your “experiance” with mentally ill, to exploit his own issues, that makes you a sick old broad and thats about it. Mikes thrives without that influence. So good day to all you hateful people. and all I can say is hopefully this time he really does stay away from you and not get sucked back into being your bitch boy.


    October 13, 2012 at 1:30 am

  35. My good friend asked me to respond to this. David, who stayed by my side through this court battle. he is a Falmouth Police officer and is very angry I did not share my truth today in court about Mike. Dave…my truth be told he is truly unworthy of me and all the sad drama belongs to him, he brought that on. He used and abused me and it is in the past. The sick people who surround him will know one day that he is the bad seed. I am healed from that abuse, wounds heal. Actually read the history, the person who you support is the person that nearly killed me with his own hands. Why post here? Did someone really say washed up? Dave this is only helpful because you are mad. I really don’t care Far from washed up and Mike is the loser who is truly alone, surrounded by shallow people. I am surrounded by people who truly love me and have been in my life for over twenty years, friends like no other. I have a wonderful reputation so enough said here. I am beautiful, not alone, upstanding citizen, and dating an amazing guy because I let myself heal. I am in control today.

    Deb/ David

    October 16, 2012 at 10:43 pm

  36. To my beautifuful daughter, We, together took our lives back. One to no other You were my savior and for that I truly cherish you. I am thankful today to see how destructive this is for both of us and we are truly on the other side now. We as a family can resume our normal lives. We both have great relationships and good jobs. And my Christopher..Thanks for alerting me to this and know that I love you more than life. Dave is looking forward and you will love him, as I do Bill, A new phase in our FAMILY. Let The World Be known The Costins Love Who They Are, Lonely In The End.

    Deb/ David

    October 17, 2012 at 10:27 pm

  37. Realistic, So sad for you Amanda. You truly know what you are. Why would you ever get involved with two abusive men. ok take my words and my daughters and at the end of the day the mirror shows who you atr. Post this bullshit like you know… Good luck, sloppy seconds or thirds or forths. You really think you are something?? Take a look at yourself. My boyfriend said you look like a drug addict and you really do. At 20 plus I am so much better looking than you. He said you are complete white trash. You are and everyone here in Falmouth was like What happened to Mike? Not much better on the North Shore. Really Realistic. Take a hard look at yourself…YOU HAVE NOTHING>>Aside from the worst reputation going, grow up for yourself. oh and for Mike. He is going to need you. Oh yea its all about fake you…sloppy seconds. I would hate to be you. No character, No class.

    Deb/ David

    October 17, 2012 at 10:45 pm

  38. Said beautifully Deb, Marrissa and yourself are on the other side of that cruel abuse. I want you to know, and all who post here, You and (Ris) are beautiful people. Taking your life back means you have to do things like posting here. Thank you beautiful one, for proving just that. Glad you are mine and tell Ris and Bill next time I will host. We will talk offline. This shit just makes me mad. I love you Deb. We can move away from your past. I love our family and looking to have a nice weekend with them. We have plans and then the move. I am relieved that you get it today and do not mind sharing that my once scared girlfriend is healed, or maybe…if she accepts…fiance. For all that post here, who cares about the downward spiral? Both Mike and Sean deserve the worst that life has to offer. I have had the opportunity to get to know two of the most beautiful women who challenged their own lives to make THE COSTIN BOYS better. Glad to say their tragic past is behind them. We are working on our own families today with both of these beautiful women at the forefront. The downward spiral is about the choices they have made. I am all the better for it because I met the girl of my dreams so I want to thank Mike and God for making her who she is.


    October 18, 2012 at 10:01 pm

  39. As a very close family friend, knowing both people and families, knowing this whole stroy from the beginning. I honestly cant belivev that this much personal private information is being put out on the web like this. It is disgusting. The only thing i have to say is i am not surprised that it is, because of all the “dram” that is probably being stirred up by it. It’s obivouse that you all thrive off of the drama. And one more thing… I know “ris” did not make that comment about her father, someone else obviously used her name and wrote it (i think we can all guess who) Since the father being spoken about is an amazing person, a good person, and most importantly an absolutely amazing father. He was lied to and cheated on by Deb. Him and “ris” are very close, as he is with all his children. Deb when was the last time you made any effort to see your kids? You’re a liar and a manipulator. You destroyed your family..well not really because your ex husband did a such a great job of taking care of your children, they all turned out wonderful because of HIM. Mike Costin is a terrible person. end of story. there is no excuse that could be used to justify the actions of that kid, or his pathetic brother.


    October 20, 2012 at 9:04 pm

  40. I am the police officer who watches these posts. I believe there is ex-husband revenge going on here as well. lo, is Mike Mckie, subject to my investigation. Deformation of Deborah’s character. Daily records show that she contacts her children daily and always did. It was Michael McKie who comitted fraud by taking all of the family earnings to gain for himself. My name is David and I am Deborahs fiance and I am also a detective for Barnstable County. There is so much hate here due to abusers, Mike and Mike. All I care about is Deborah and I am prepared with my authority to make her feel whole again as she did not do anything wrong. Court records show domestic abuse across her life with both of these men. My investigation will include taking this post down as Deborah has asked me not to take any action of all the continued abuse. She quietly asked me, Is it over? She laughs today and thats the way it should be. I love her and know her for who she truly is. These posts are obnoxious, you obviously did not know her and never will. We will seek fines of abuse on each of you from this site.


    October 21, 2012 at 12:09 am

  41. Looking in to URL as I work the night shift. You should have spoken your truth like Deborah did. She has been tourtured and why do you deface that? She found me and I found her. This is going to stop. Court fines are coming.


    October 21, 2012 at 12:30 am

  42. Did any of you actually read the story? I saw the brutal pictures and she is lucky to have survived let alone the the money he took and the car and apt he used and abused. I viewed 18 pictures of my beautiful wife to be, unrecognizable. She has a brain injury and permanent cheek damage, tooth damage. Just thought I would share as I go through the history. The real victim is my love. Digging deeeper Deb. Its not about cheatng thats not you and not about forfeiting your children as I watched you suffer because Mike took 300 dollars that you saved to give Maddie. I know your story and stand by it. Let it rest, with the dismantle of thus project


    October 21, 2012 at 12:59 am

  43. This is disgusting that you are all putting this personal information on this site. DISGUSTING. Stop acting as if “ris” is Marrissa because it is clearly not her. Grow up. you are a terrible mother so stop acting like someone you are not. you have NO RIGHT bringing your children into this site and it is terrible that you are doing so. you are humiliating. And your ex husband abused you? this is the biggest joke i have ever heard. literally laughed when I read this. when you walked out of your family’s life, he stepped in as both a mother and a father. fraud and abuse? haha, what a joke. if you were anything near a real human, you would take the post down about your daughters. you need to really grow up.

    BTW dave.. found this gem of an article about you..


    October 21, 2012 at 5:19 pm

  44. I truly hope Dave is right at taking this site down. None of this is helpful in any kind of healing on both of our lives. This started with Mike costin and myself. Therefore I will speak for myself, Maybe Marrissa had a bad day and posted that out of anger or maybe someone else did however she has had a difficult hand dealt to her and relies on the money that her Dad can support her with. I did not step out of my families lives. My marriage ended in 2005 when I told my ex that if counseling isn’t something that he would entertain I would have to end the emotional tourture. You really don’t know what it is like to be the supposed manipulator that walked away from a life that I built, money I earned, with nothing. My children are all over 18 and have their own lives so we see each other as often as we can. The best days of my life were spent raising them. Manipulator I am not or I would have saved my home that Mike M turned upside down, bad mother, My children turned out beautiful, Mike became the “amazing father when it was convient to him” I remained the mother I have always been, caring from a distance as Mike M left me with no resourses. That is abuse, and just as Mike C followed suit. That is over now and I have people in my life today that I trust. I have made mistakes and paid dearly for them. I gave my heart and soul to both of them and the abuse was intolerable. Going back to this site, what if I was killed at Mikes hands? Where would my children be? He consciously beat me hoping I would die. He is a big man punching a woman repeatedly in the head, why did he do that? If his sadness comes from his fathers tragic death, really why did he inflict the same tourture? Its nice that you all have your angered opinions however this is my life, something you do not know a thing about so it would be helpful to end the anger and opinions with this last post. I have and this is actually MY LIFE BEING DISPLAYED HERE. Refer to the original article. I am the survivor. Not he victim. I have taken my life back and for those who truly have a conscience will respect myself, friends and family. I never want to hear of this nonsense again. Thank you.


    October 21, 2012 at 9:53 pm

  45. David, Thank you with the support as I posted my last post with your name? You apparently used my computer. I love you and this crazy revenge is over right? Looking forward. I will never look back.


    October 21, 2012 at 10:06 pm

  46. Deb is right, Its me holding onto to her past with anger. Letting that go will bring her back. If any of you really knew her you would love her, beautiful inside and out. I will gain her back after learning so much with this demented site. It should be taken down however RJ Cook seems to be non existant. Digging deeper. Now I have to deal with myself and know that my anger does not constitute love when the girl I fell in love with asks me to respect her wishes, now I know. I myself have grown through her and hoping she will see it. Best for success as Deb would say to Mike, she is a forgiving woman and that I admire.


    October 25, 2012 at 11:03 pm

  47. I had her and lost her. Anger wins. We both lost a beautiful, caring woman. Let the better man help her heal


    October 27, 2012 at 12:06 am

  48. Funny how the truth got deleted ha, funny really don’t worry deb most of us see through you..


    November 6, 2012 at 12:56 am

  49. And know your a person*


    November 6, 2012 at 1:06 am

  50. The post about David is not me. Deb had a friend of a friend to which she deleted. She is learning to trust and today my closest friend, she is someone who listens and truly cares. She is a independent woman and as I am a town official, beyond trying to get to know her, she has a reputation for success with providing the the best care for all of her towns people. She is recognized with the state and has has provided more townspeople with jobs and housing in her two years, working with the state, than anyone, social worker in the past ten years. I am truly happy to say that she shares her wisdom within this town and is a beautiful individual, inside and out. Deborah is a true survivor and I am marveling at her success. She has moved from her family home into a beautiful condo and never let the stress of her relationship get to her. She recently said to me, I lived a shattered dream… I am awake and my dreams are going to be reality. I have to move and be completely independent before I start any kind of relationship. I love and protect her as well as know her. I also work for the town. It seems this site is all about sad Mike. Some how I got caught up in him, which I or we could care more than less about. She bought a beautiful condo here in Falmouth and We put her Christmas tree up together tonight with a ton of laughs. I would never ask her about this shit, its just part of her past and glad to know and report all the fucked up people who visit here. There will never be a day my sweeheart will even look at this trash, that I manage for her.


    November 18, 2012 at 12:55 am

  51. It is extremely unnecessary for these types of things to be discussed on the interent for the entire world to see– keep your personal issues to yourselves, show some class. It is embarassing for all parties involved, many of these accussations are false and completely fabricated. You are all adults, it’s time to start acting like it. Show some respect for others that this may hurt or reflect upon. Any coward can hide behind a computer and rant about something they have no idea about. Settle any of these personal manners privately, please.


    November 19, 2012 at 8:00 pm

  52. Peeked your interest? The only coward here is Mike, is this not what this post is about? False, not at all. Court records, pictures do not at all lie. You should think about what or who you stand for. Looking out for the victim, not the coward……….who abuses a woman in that way? Who are you that condone this? I think you have to show some respect. I got involved as this is my profession. I actually know the truth and stand for what I believe in. Its not a personal matter alone, that family made it public. Because I became involved made a hell of a lot of difference in Debs life and without giving away her privacy, she is a hell bent strong woman. Her family sends kudos our way. Her youngest daughter and ex-husband stated some remarkable views about Deb recently, it was true gratitude that she was away from The Costin Family and could return to herself. While there was emotional and physical damage, she is with her family, friends, career and well today. A beautiful and genuine woman that I will stand for with the test of time.


    November 24, 2012 at 12:34 am

  53. Holy smokes! This drama is better than reality TV! What a great read while stuck at the airport. And I thought my family was crazy! The only lucky one in this whole saga is Costin Sr. – he really does “rest in peace” now that he’s away from you loudmouths!


    November 24, 2012 at 6:37 am

  54. All hail David, the savior. Enough bud, your embarrassing yourself, Deborah, and her family. I’m sure none of them want this on the Internet. Get off your high horse and go
    “do your job.” Chances are, you don’t get paid to babble in the comments section of an article written years ago. Happy Holidays, please try and move on.


    November 28, 2012 at 5:19 pm

  55. Prich, This is not an article. If you had an idea of the real truth and saw what this woman and her family went through you would not have this opinion. This is not old news as it continued in Debs life until she sought help. She came into the Police station on August 31, 2012 and said she could not go home as she feared her, then boyfriend. Her fear was real. restraining order was issued. When you love someone you don’t get paid to protect them. While she doesn’t ever want to talk about Mike or this site, it is my job to protect her always.Who are you to tell me to move on? I do not have to. When you love someone you protect them, even if it means their dangerous past. I am her savior alright, she now lives in a beautiful condo and is exceeding in her career, she has a new car and her beautiful family is very much part of her life. We had a celebration last weekend as her son, Michael is going overseas for a year, USCG. I support Deb as “:her friend” Who Are You?


    December 1, 2012 at 12:03 am

  56. I have said my peace here. I no longer want to jepordize my relationship with Deb, She always talks about God and Karma. Michael was arrested and yes once again, in the past week, for marijuana w/ intent to distribute. She speaks of beauty and tells me never worry, when the devil is near, karma is all to well. I believe Deb is onto something, as she would frame, beautiful…I will let this rest as well. Building a future . Prich, no worry but thanks anyway for your time. We do things different here on Cape Cod, Don’t know where you are coming from. Doesn’t matter anyway, ready to begin what Deb views a beautiful life.


    December 1, 2012 at 12:34 am

  57. With gratitude and closure,
    It is my hope for michael that he heals the wounds that I could not. For those who force me to post here, I am truly healed. This site is for all the anger that I no longer choose. I had my rant and for what it is worth…anger belongs to the ongoing hurt. I will validate however not condone, my friend, as he doesn’t realize that you cannot move forward while looking in the rearview mirror! Today, I have not lost anything however gained an amazing strength and I owe that to Mike. He is one tourtured individual who put me to my own test. I woke up one day and realized the facade and took my life back. Sorry for the Costin Family as they choose this way of life. My beautiful family and friends remove this activity for once and for all. Take Care. If you care, those of you that post, you will get the fact. This is my past, never looking back.


    December 2, 2012 at 12:35 am

  58. 😦 waiting…USMC My David has been called to duty:( LOST without him:( Pray for him:) I promised to never give the Costin Family a thought. I did and realize that he was super right. There are good people in the world and Mike is not one of them. I am just the average person however my face is permanately damaged because of Mike punching me…yes fist to cuff…he punched my face in…ok David, got it out! Moving forward….I miss you and love you so very much:)


    December 9, 2012 at 12:48 am

  59. With gratitude and prayers for your return. My best friend and savior, David…How can you dislike him? Those that post here would have to be sadistic..seriously…Mike Costin is a savage woman beater with no conscience??? I am the survivor of his abuse. For all that posted about my David or me and my family? You must be the low life of society. I learned so much in the past three months and that is when you surround yourself with beauty that is what you will be. I have that today. Take a close look at the Costin Family???? Arrests, drugs, unpaid child support…complete waste of time. I am so glad I am strong today and met so many friends who have truly believed in me. If you have a conscience pray for David as he has gone to Kawait as he is in the USMC Div Reserve as well as a police officer in Barnstable County. David helped me grow beyond the abuse of the Costin family and pray for his safe return.


    December 11, 2012 at 11:57 pm

  60. From half way around the world, keeping up on the data. While I have good friends that will protect my Deb, I want the world to know what a dangerous person Mike is. My lifes mission is about perserving peace. I am 35 years old and have seen so much devastation due to violence. I am inpart, a peace mission in The Middle East and pray for a safe return. This is my last mission with the Marine Corp Reserve Division. My hope is to come home safely and marry Deb. All you opinionated responders, I can only hope you will post in my beautiful fiances defense. It is tuff to be so far away and really love someone and worry all the while I have this mission above my head. Please support my bueautiful wife to be and I will be watching. Be back in June. and never that far away. Thank you for your support. I know in my darkest times she will be safe because you must have a conscience.

    Dave USMC Div 101 Mass. 171012485710. Bahrain, Kawait. Middle East. 1017249121823.

    December 14, 2012 at 12:14 am

  61. I have been surfing on-line more than three hours lately, but I
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    December 14, 2012 at 11:22 pm

  62. Gaming, surf somewhere else. Screwed up if you find any of this beautiful. Attention grabbing for the sadist? Oh did not mean to offend you. Surf for deviant purposes as you apparently do yet I watch this disturbing content. . My name is Dave and I am a real person in my real fiances life…not your fantasy life. I am half way around the world however do not miss a beat when it comes down to Deb. Serving our country and days into my deployment so if you feel that this is beautiful and valuable, get your fucked up head checked and think about what you said. This site will bring the best of weirdos, addicts, sorry folk. What can a man do when he has a valuable woman to protect?? Stand by her, many miles away and close at heart. Stop the drama folks. Have some respect for the survivor. Spend some real time watching out for her. Most feel bad for the sadist Mike and cannot figure out why. Why would you defend a sociopath? Yeah thats what he is. All the evidence points to the actual truth. He is no victim. We all lose a father at some time..does that make us an excused perpertraitor? Thats right if he felt so fucked up over the violence he witnessed then why would he hurt a woman who loved him so much. He permanately damaged her cheek and nearly killed her. She has permanent brain damage. He is a lucky soul cause he should spend life behind bars for what he did to her in light of what she gave him. Stand up for Mike and show who you are. SADIST. Let this be done. I am trying to get through and get back to the home that I started with my beautiful Deb. Listen to my plea here and stop your false concern. The article was written in Deborahs defense. I can cover this so time to get another interest.

    Dave USMC Div 101 Mass. 171012485710. Bahrain, Kawait. Middle East. 1017249121823.

    December 15, 2012 at 2:35 am

  63. Some of these comments, Realistic stands out. Absolute borderline with narciciss tendendencies. Real fucked up shit there. Now that I have time I see the evil my beautiful fiance was dealing with. She is a bright woman on so many levels and classy by FAR. Mike is dealing with drug addicted, prostitutes that think they have a brain to post here. He had a good woman and now deals with the garbage like he is, oh thats all he can get! For real…Realistic fake social worker white trash, yeah I said that. Who are you to undermine Deb. OK his drinking has diminished??? Grow up and stop your facade. What do you know and who are you anyway aside from the dirty trash we sweep up for the trash men. What do you think? Nasty looking and acting like you really don’t know. It’s called white trash and guess what? You are it. Can’t say sorry folk. I miss home with my simple life manning the Barnstable County Trail. I miss Debs laugh and smile. her crazy exercise routine before our amazing dinner! Her beautiful new home and her positive attitude about moving there. I miss hearing about her day with all the stability she provides. I can go on and on. That is what love is and I believe this is a life long mission. cannot wait to get back and stablize with Deb. peace to all who support her. If you don’t, cry your drama elsewhere, or all you inept will have to hear from me. Oh yea don’t believe in facebook so don;t consider that, in effort to sabotage me. deb is delicate with all this bullshit and can connect and manage her own facebook, I cannot because of this type of media. Well it does work. We only want privacy and will get that by the time I get home. Do you all get it? Do not post here…site is dead.

    Dave USMC Div 101 Mass. 171012485710. Bahrain, Kawait. Middle East. 1017249121823.

    December 16, 2012 at 1:54 am

  64. All of you need to shut the fuck up and get therapy. The Lord has spoken!

    Sweet Lord Jesus

    December 16, 2012 at 2:08 am

  65. Amen, in the early morning hour. Sweet Lord Jesus, well received. Thats what I am aiming for, her past to quiet down so that she can be fully in the present. This nonsense gets her distracted so thanks from afar. We cannot get the site diminished as the manager does not respond and I am away right now. I would pay for it to be removed and no response. Contact has been Debs issue and this is the last of it as she is has her last post days ago. She doesn’t want any connection and my aim is to let people know who Mike is and let her heal. So Amen to this post…most do need therapy, I know a perfect one, My beautiful fiance.

    Dave USMC Div 101 Mass. 171012485710. Bahrain, Kawait. Middle East. 1017249121823.

    December 16, 2012 at 11:55 pm

  66. I may have been hard on all of your posts and that was my aim. The goal for my involvement is to be with Deb and no-nonsense of her traumatic past. I sent her a elf and she posted it with amazing happiness. It is the small things that make her happy today…and glad to say, all who visit here today, she is happy. The woman is on fire and shines like a diamond…proud to say that she is my fiance and has waited long enough. Tired is this post as well as the poor Costin Family. I have two beautiful women that would attest to that. We are moving forward and away from the finality. Deb and I have our own family…Chris and Connor and maybe one of our own…another page in heroic history or mine from afar. With all the bad in the world comes something great! Let this sad and pathetic site die a real painful death, as it should…onto my own family and success. Miss home and will be there soon, I love you my little miss, baby girl. If you read this I know you will be upset and know Its how I handle my stuff. Let the world know, we do not fight, just do not always agree! We are always honest with each other. Said my peace here. Forever rest in peace. Be home soon, dont even…you will pay. I love my Deb and it is forever…and our baby…boy:) Finally, my first and her miracle. Life is perfect for Deb today is all you need to know.

    Dave USMC Div 101 Mass. 171012485710. Bahrain, Kawait. Middle East. 1017249121823.

    December 19, 2012 at 12:01 am

  67. I was also on the scene with the bizarre arrest of Mike. Many of times with marijuana in hand and his bullshit! Dave we miss you and Deb looked beautiful at our holiday party. Is it true you are going to be a dad? Deb looks great! You have a beautiful woman!

    FPD Domestic Unit

    December 22, 2012 at 12:51 am

  68. Dave, Deb is good, at home sleeping ! FPD party at coonamesset tonight ! She walked in and out. Saw what she needed to.

    FPDStreet Unit

    December 22, 2012 at 1:35 am

  69. We had a convo earlier. I miss Deb so much and hope and will do whatever to make this relationship work


    December 22, 2012 at 1:42 am

  70. Good afternoon to you all, Deb did not go to any party at the Coonamesset. Not last night anyway. Time and distance maybe its me. Tired of checking here and proud that people get it finally. Its why I do it,I hate the dirtbag and no matter what, Deb is an honorable, valuable, beautiful lady.Not sure about klions and the agenda of relationship? We are working on it as we speak. I love her in every way. She is not by any means difficult. She is very open minded and so open with communication. Thanks for looking out and keeping me in the Family.


    December 23, 2012 at 3:04 am

  71. Quiet…Amen. Thank the dear lord for the reprieve. Coming home early! Turned 6mo into 3mo. be home by feb. Miss my girl too much to stay away! Also it has been an honor to turn this shit around and it is just that…ahhaa. Miss, it is, around…Deb. Baby, onto our life and leaving this one, site that I know traps you. I miss you and cant believe how fast I fell in love with you. You never leave my mind. Ya I am talking to you in a way to apologize cause I know someone will tell you about this and you know how I am insidious with this stuff. We can move away from this now. Merry Christmas to all that love Deborah as much as I do. You asked me hours ago if I would stop is what you said and yes I am just nuts about you and want to come home to finish what we started. This is a life long journey and she has my hand. Love has conquered her brutal past, I love Deborah McKie with my heart and soul.


    December 25, 2012 at 12:14 am

  72. I adore Deborah. I have known her more than half my life and she has always inspired me. Dave someday we may speak. if it works out for you and it sounds like it will, You seem to be what I was not and how could we or anyone defend what Mike was or was not Deb is a strong and giving woman yet treat her right or while she is forgiving and lets way too much go its her you will lose if you are selfish. I speak for myself while saying she loved two men in her short life and brought happiness to both. I guess we took that for granted and thats why she says your relationship is complicated. I helped her clean out her house recently back in Oct and I was amazed at how she carried her family around from place to place, that is my family, It was then that I realized what is now way too late. She has a long life ahead of her and while I may have patched up my past with her, we will always share, she is my best friend forever and I want you to know that I am on your side. Come back whole, she was crying on Christmas as she said He is the only person that understands me and it happened in a glance, he knew what to do and quickly make me realize. You gave her that safety, while no-one else could over the past 5 yrs.She trusts you and I know that because I know her. You and I have a lot in common. I love her too and want what is best for her so we can help her together. Well support her. She is amazing for what she has endured and how she carries her life today. I have not ever come across a bad word against her aside from the Costin family. The sad story that does not exsist, mine does, I lost a family and I would like to talk with you Dave, let bygones be bygones.


    December 26, 2012 at 11:20 pm

  73. While her true friends realize what is going on here. Deb is either working on anothers problem or her own exercise routine. Who are you MMMM to ask or pretend like you care? Deb is fine, lost 43lbs and says she is back where she belongs.

    Cuz I care, friend

    December 29, 2012 at 12:24 am

  74. Good Morn, whoa why would Deb lose 40 plus pounds? We couldn’t see her if that were true. Then again she said to pay no mind to this so I was just letting the enemy so called supportors know, I am still around. The site is about the survivor once again and that is Deb. Not Mike who remains a so called victim. Choices. Thats how he chose to live, a sick coward. Be home soon, never ever can I leave my angel again.

    David USMC

    December 29, 2012 at 11:56 pm

  75. Like diamonds in the sky.You and I. Real and honest love. I really miss my little girl. Just got off long distance and we should not be apart. I have traveled through the years, this is my last…For those who love Deb…I have the plan for an outdoors wedding. Diamonds in the sky.

    David USMC

    December 30, 2012 at 12:30 am

  76. AWW, for you my David! That was beautiful. While I know you feel it is important to post here, realize my and our privacy! Anger will never win…just come home safe. Your job is done as far as protecting me and lets let this die as it should. I found true love, is all anyone needs to know. Nothing more to say, I have a beautiful diamond on my finger and one in the sky, happy when he comes home to make the promise of forever real. So in love and miss you…him.For what it is worth I celebrate my true happiness. Thank you for all who supported me with this journey. Been through hell and back to heaven, love to all my family and friends and my amazing fiance. My love to all. A beautiful life.


    December 30, 2012 at 11:48 pm

  77. The end Princess, May you all know that what started out was horrific, ended in a beautiful way. Story over. The girl meets her prince and they live happily ever after. The End.

    Dave USMC

    January 1, 2013 at 1:21 am

  78. Its not easy to marr Davids ending or beginning and I have to say while I never got to meet Dave, Deborah is my real and true friend. She was always a princess with her kind ways and cute and adorable face, what a beautiful smile as she was known for that, her smile that could make anyday better. I have known Deb since her high school and I thought Mike was her prince. All these years later and fb friends have me know, talk through friends as she has many and it seems she still has them, Dave you are one lucky man. I would like her to be my princess, recently divorced and Debbie was my first love and she was so in love with Mike M. You have your princess and my advice after reading through this convoluted garbage is to not let her go. Debbie has never changed and for that you should be glad. Debbie was my first love but she never knew that. She was so it seems so in love with Mike and missing pieces some wierd abuse and why would this beautiful girl ever succomb to that? I am happy and jealous, all these years later that she found you. You seem to love her the way I would if I only had the chance. Good luck my man Romeo gets the girl. And she is the balcony princess. what a lucky man. i found this through friends of hers and glad she is just fine. i think of her always through the years, just something you dont forget and thats her caring ways and her face. that beautiful smile. Dave the military man hold the babe close and dont ever let go. hatss off to you, Missed that boat. Debbie live on my lost one. Glad you are safe and happy today, I guess this is your beautiful life that you talk about. Glad it does not constitute the abuse you have been through. The old football team cant understand why you would get involved with this, our cheerleader will always win. dave you have to take care of her and it sounds like you will.

    Friend from the past

    January 7, 2013 at 11:05 pm

  79. And I will from the alert in the bunker, I have all these sound offs and brief phone calls from Deb. Next month we will make the big wedding plan and she wants it down by the river in Falmouth at her family home Deb has all the plans so it is what she wants. Realistic planning will be April after I have the yard cleaned out and the music and caterer in place and I renovated the home for our family as we cannot sell the place, its her family home. My gift to my future wife is to make her dream real.She lives in a beautiful condo now down by the harbor yet that is her home and why she came out here and I want to give that back to her. Our home and down by the river where memories are made. Our family that we started. Our beautiful life. Will be, April 4 is the day I will marry my princess.


    January 7, 2013 at 11:45 pm

  80. I am a past friend and neighbor, renovations have begun on Turner Rd. All plans look great Dave, just what she needed, a real man. I saw Deb today with the construction crew and just want her to know that I was always on her side. Looking forward to being neighbors. Salute to you and we will prepare for your wedding, Debs Dad would approve. April with the cleanout in place will be the best of all times. Love your ending or beginning. She needed you and am very glad you found each other. Happily ever after.

    across the way

    January 8, 2013 at 11:36 pm

  81. happy to hear that you approve. Friends and family do as well. Alert signals to this unnattractive site. I just got off the long distance with my little princess and we decided to keep our plans quiet. She also asked me to never announce anything here and she means ever. Just wanted all parties to know Deborah is and always will be just fine . We will be amoungst family and friends and she found her prince, is all you need to know. Select invites are being sent. Be home in february b/c this is the end of my term. 35 and turned in all of my vac time, full pension and no plan to return. I am on easy St finally and looking forward to my next career with my angel and our family. Disgusting is this site, I will honor my angel with every last dishonest post and celebrate the survivor that lives within her. Whatever she wants will be today, she earned that and I am the lucky one that can give her that. Move on all, alerts will not get my response as my little girl asked for me to never look back, she has moved so much further in my absense. I have to honor that and will. No more anger as we look forward with the best life ahead. Thoughts to self, bye now respect our beautiful life.


    January 9, 2013 at 12:18 am

  82. If this site is “so disgusting”, then why do you all keep posting your personal business on it? You stir up your own stupid drama. This blog has been dead since 2010! The only activity are the responses to this post which had nothing to do with all the ensuing blah blah in the first place. Just let the past become history and for fucks sakes stop calling attention to yourselves.

    Nobody You Know

    January 9, 2013 at 10:39 am

  83. To the moron or nobody you know. The kind of weirdos as I watch like you are the reason I post here. I really dont think the drama has been dead since 2010 or should not have been. Looking at the domestic reports and history with this dirtbag is the reason I post here. You are the nosey weirdo who looks here and ask yourself why? In some weird way you must be interested in Deborahs or the others past and I think that it is not the latter. Maybe you should look inside because for you to comment must mean you have your own convoluted world to deal with. Sorry for you, my mission will not change while being out here in Kawaiit and missing home and my fiance Again why do you look here? Do you support a drug abusing, woman beater who is on social security and is about to lose the taxpayers cash? I am calling attention to what is real and decent. Why again do you post here? I may be far away however I watch for the dirt like you, nasty comment and what do you know? I am a law enforcement agent overseas now and my mission is protection, people like you and I will post personal because it was my fiances personal abuse that she had to overcome. This is her beginning and not your place whoever you are to post here. I will look into it however when I get back, URL. Deborah does not want to deal with this as well. She is my happy little angel, my diamond in the sky that is so patiently waiting for me. Keep up your posts and I will do the same. Looking out for our future when all you degerates realize MIKE C was wrong and should have been behind bars for at least 20 yrs. attempted murder, Salem news. I am proud to say she hates him and thats ok. She tried through church and cannot feel otherwise, she hates the … By the way what is it you were were trying to say? No one cares here. Sadistic for looking here with a negative post. As you can see no one cares about poor Mike and hasn”t in a long time. I made this all about My Beautiful wife to be, again why are you posting here, sadist as you must be??? I am going to keep asking why you look here if it werent for your self closure. Do me justice and move on. Or do it for yourself if you can as an embarrassed self loathing somewhat human??? Thats what you are. Do not find the need to post here . It is really is none or your unfactulized business. I protect the one I love, I guess you are jealous looking at what she has or has become without that loser in her life. Nobody really cares aside from you and you sound like some dirty shit yourself for even condoning this and supporting the woman beater. The little drug addicted man uses and abuses everyone who care. I am a COP, seen more than my share of sociopaths. Stop with your drama, grow up and wake up. We don’t care. The END IPromise My angel. I just had to respond to this absolute moron. I love you AND PLEASE UNDERSTAND.


    January 11, 2013 at 12:36 am

  84. First of all, you are two steps away from illiterate. Following your rambling rants is akin to a kick upside the head.

    Personally, I don’t give two shits about you, that Deborah woman, or Michael Costin, Jr. I came across this convoluted mess waaay back in November while sitting in the Atlanta airport, bored out of my mind and surfing the internet. I am all the way on the other coast of the country. I’ll never meet you people, nor would I want to.

    You are all nothing but a mob of drama queens, every single one of you. YOU, “Dave” are the biggest one of them all. You keep this garbage going with your senseless drivel and completely bring any heartaches upon yourself. Just SHUT UP already, will you?

    Coincidentally, this is a public blog and I will continue to post here and needle you as I see fit until I grow bored with it. So nanny boo boo.

    I also suggest you seek some anger management counseling. You are a bubble of spite and hatred just waiting

    Nobody You Know

    January 11, 2013 at 1:04 am

  85. to burst and more than likely kill someone yourself.

    In conclusion, ALL OF YOU are fucked in the head.

    Nobody You Know

    January 11, 2013 at 1:06 am

  86. My true and last comment here. I do not condone most of these comments and do understand Daves stance on all of this. We both agree that the future depends on letting go of the past. While I cannot explain here what part Mike c played in my own turmoil over the past 5yrs. I do own the fact that I let him in my life for many reasons and to benefit him, not me. This goes hand and hand with my profession and who I am. We were very different people yet circumstance at the time created a bond. It took my sisters untimely death last November to make me strong enough to see who I was and who was truly part of my life, it was not Mike who was living under my roof and who I cared for despite the abuse that he inflicted. As I began my journey toward wellness with his escalating drug and alcohol abuse, he brought out the worst in me. I returned to church, family and counseling and what was left was my convo with my Mom regarding selling my family home, and a restraining order with no contact. I wanted to end this madness and that I did. My Family home remains on the market and I moved into my own beautiful condo in November. Time away has given me my life back and for that I am grateful. While I have been contacted by fictious family members via inbox…Sean and his grandparents I choose my life today and block all that he brought my way. If I passed Mike on the Street I would keep walking as if he was just another person trying to survive. Today I do not know him and what he left in my path, I choose to sweep that aside. The restraining order gave me the peace I needed to heal. Something changed in me and most likely God, My realtor and my Moms friend both said to me, upon entering the home on Turner Rd. I got a bad feeling when I was in that house…My response was that my Dad lost his life and I struggled to survive. I believe it is time to let go and truly let God. Onto the beautiful life that I made, my career, my children and my complicated fiance, or should he listen and not feel the need to dramitze the past. While it is said wounds heal and scars remain, it is up to the warrior who holds such. To feel the opposite from the scar in order to better another life. I choose the opposite. To never look back and rant all you want, I said my piece here along with my love. This is the end of a new beginning.


    January 12, 2013 at 1:01 am

  87. Another side to dave. He loves the girl, deb so much. her presence and I am looking out, there dave diggity dog. Saw her at turner earlier and she is just fine. we all watch in your abscence. she is home and sleeping now. one to another kid, with the girl waiting for you. nothing to report, she loves you and is waiting. i know this site is bullshit and looking to see if you comment. I didnt get contact info from Deb as she was quick to leave. you have been looking for a while and it looks like you have found the one, dimples, eyes, hair need i go on? Got your back buddy and she is the one I agree.

    FPD Friend

    January 13, 2013 at 1:14 am

  88. Why does anyone post here, clearly you have no idea what is real. Looking back debbie took care of drama before it surfaced. I was led to this site by my true friends facebook, Deb Nichols mckie. An A student, prom queen, with her husband to follow right after graduation. As we say today, the girl was on fire, she seems to be still. Deb Nichols always loved all, she had her friends and cared for all. Not a mean bone in her gorgeous body. Why would anyone treat her this real way. This real, meaning she has been hurt severly, why would anyone do that to her? I love you Deb, your smile and grace. So many years have passed and still I think of you..

    High School friend...sweet smile... may not remember.

    January 15, 2013 at 11:48 pm

  89. Nobody you know, and it should be that way. Dumber than Dumb you gave me the best idea…turn the loose cannon in. you are one in the same for fucks sake! Mucky and stupid the guy is turned in on your thought or lack there of. for fucks sake and the sake of social security! dumb fake . tired of paying the fuck ups dues

    watching out

    January 16, 2013 at 12:15 am

  90. Are you drunk? That comment makes no sense whatsoever.

    Nobody You Know

    January 16, 2013 at 12:21 am

  91. It does make sense. Sounds like Social Security abuse and there is on Michael costins part. I submitted my docs in re to his fines owed to FDC Falmouth Ma. Possession charge. Social Security scam and guess he owes. Should have really sought treatment. even Deb signed against the order. Guess he is gonna have to live like the rest and hope below, like his brother who never supported his child. Heard both of these woman made it above and beyond. While it does not make sense to you, you are never going to know what it takes. My fam does, just saying enough. BYE, BYE


    January 16, 2013 at 11:27 pm

  92. FFFF That the force is out in action. DEB knows how I feel about the crime committed against her home and the turmoil she had to go through and the money to fix the doorknob. She told me of the messages from Mikes friend Pete and how she had to summon FPD so do not try and keep me in the dark. CONTACT MADE, I am comimg home in 21 days. WTF, Guys thought you were watching and I find this out? My fiance is being harassed and her home is broken into on top of her mom being in the hospital and I CANNOT be there. FFFFF days are counting nobody you know and all the losers who post here FFF you. I am so in love and am so FFF mad I cannot be there. WhT i KNOW NOW…sUFFERING OUT HERE. pLEASE PLEASE yOU HAVE NO IDEA. i LOVE MY BABY GIRL, dEB, PROTECT HER. dONT ACCESS LONG OUT HERE, SPELLING AND TEXT. sRY GUYS i JUST NEED YOUR HELP. 21 DAYS TOO LONG


    January 19, 2013 at 12:31 am

  93. Text right, nobody care should learn how to spell and act, moron. Thats the reason SS is ending for Mike, just revisited it. Learn how to spell while you are at a real life. Acting career na, cleaning toilets ahh yea. Nice advocating. we need to turn in all the fake social security claims. Mike is def one of them. Living off the system, working under the table, food stamps and mass health…sure..loser and figure this out friend.. zero and payback. drug dealer need i go on? System turn payback loser and nobody cares live with it. nasty bye bye. You and I both know it cause we know him. did you read this shit? Fucked up.

    former friend of nobody cares, we all know who that is!!!!

    January 19, 2013 at 12:50 am

  94. Deb – Woman to woman, please listen to me. I don’t know you personally but I’ve learned all about your life just from reading this garbage. Please take heed. It’s terrible your home was broken into, and that your man is not there to help you. But would he be a help? Read his words. Feel his blatant anger. He may be a cop and a soldier and you are “in love” with him but my god, how long until he hits you?? He is full of rage and you see it. Break the cycle, girl. You can do it. – a stranger

    Nobody You Know

    January 19, 2013 at 2:05 am

  95. Nobody and a stranger, I am full of rage out here and for what has happened to my fiance. I am not ever going to hurt Deb. My rage belongs to her hurt and maybe not my place. I am learning through her and she never wants to hear of this. It is my rage that I need to take my and our life back. Deb was so disraught over her life with this guy and my goal was to end her pain real quick. I love everything about Deb and she is my soon to be wife forever and eternity. I had to make Deb look here and share her pain to get over it. She will not get your message, that I know for a fact. Partly my fault for making her share for her own good. Deb doesn’t want to ever talk about this and I do. Yes I have rage and its not towards my Deb. Learn about her life how? Be about her life and that I willsay that I am still learning about. What I know is she wants to get up every day and help another. She shys away from drama and wants a simple life that I am willing to give and she accepted my hand in marriage before I left in December. I screen these messages today and for you to really think that you could get to her, Nobody You Know? This is my call and you are a manipulator. It is wise for you not to get between me and Deb. She will never see this , she does not care about this yet I do and it is what causes us problems. What she does not know is that I am protecting her all the while. Leave her alone and realize I love her and would never hurt her. I am giving her the beautiful life she wants. You are just so jealous, thats certainly what this is. Good Day Nobody thats why I watch. Tough time away this time and my last, coming home in less than a month and marrying the girl of my dreams…diamond in the sky, its finally time that I found the one. I am so damn lucky that God has giving me all that I asked for. A perfect family so leave us alone we are just fine. Remember I am watching for all of the right reasons.


    January 20, 2013 at 1:21 am

  96. So, you mean to tell me that you are MONITORING the websites your fiancee visits as well as DETERMINING which ones you will allow her to visit?

    This behaviour is neither “love” nor “protection” on your part. It is CONTROL over another human being. You, Dave, are a psychological abuser. You are a manipulator and a liar. What grown man posts false information about marrying a woman who doesn’t even know him?

    You have some nerve, inferring that I have some sort of jealousy over your sick and twisted relationship. Deb is well on her way to becoming yet another victim of domestic abuse if she marries you. Poor woman.

    Nobody You Know

    January 20, 2013 at 1:57 am

  97. 17 days and counting as she ended our relationship 2 days ago because of my comment. I will not disclose again here, as this is her pinpoint. Nobody…taken a day, she is the diamond in the sky! My diamond and the girl is on Fire. She has taken me back and I love her to the core. Who are you to interfere? She left me because of her past. I am her future and will win her back in 17 days, I am coming home to win my girl and I will do that because I can. I know she is sad because she left me out here in Kwaait and I know she willl forgive me. This is MY LIFE and MY SOON TO BE WIFES…if she will have me. She is so damn beautiful inside and out. I do not want to live another day without her. I found perfection and do not mess with that. She is going to be my wife, in 17 days. Bye to the nonsense and far away, I lost my life, my wife and thats all I will say. Got her back and 17 days from now it won’t matter. Wish us the best of all. I got this with my beautiful family and what may come. The future. best of all is our home and who is waiting. We have a perfect home in Falmouth by the Harbor, Deb made it that wat and 17 days in counting. I will be reunited with my fiance and all of her dreams. My dreams. Leave us alone. The end.


    January 22, 2013 at 12:29 am

  98. This should be over. To which it will. I am Daves best friend and some would say why would you get caught up in this infintile drama? I get it and feel as strong as my partner and his life long friend, fiance. The guy is a bag of wind and dirty as such. Social Seurity and with that he will owe thousands. Proof he is into drugs, domestic violence. Seriously the dirt from under the carpet is going to be swept out the door with this one. On my dime he is not ever going to get a dime from the state. He is going to owe it and then some. Drug abuser, and narcissitic. Good luck to him paying back all the dirty money he spent. One way or another he will be in jail for a long time and he should be. He chose that life and there is no sorrow for that. How could anyone normal feel bad for him? Woman beater. State income abuser. Simple, he screws up a perfect womans life, she pays and then we all pay.. Time to fight back, Dave we are with you and Deb

    Longtime friend

    January 26, 2013 at 12:09 am

  99. The pm shift is over Bud. No phone and email> Sent a few. Getting back to this. Black car in the driveway and lights out. 14 days and waiting. She is waiting for you bud and the family too. Talked with her daughter as well at WCOD. We are all looking forward to the wedding, hang in there bud.


    January 26, 2013 at 1:07 am

  100. The force is with you kid. Hearing about this non sensicle dram, I went by your new house and just want you to know Deb loves you and is looking forward to you coming home. She said you dont get phone calls or text so I thought you may look here and not ever post again, yeah we got this all wrapped up. Mike C is in the dump somewhere. thats where the trash belongs. Looking forward to your homecoming and your wedding, Deb is fine so dont worry. She is one classy woman my man. She loves you and is hurting without you so its days now right kid? See you soon.


    January 27, 2013 at 2:21 am

  101. Stop pretending to post as other people. Your poor spelling, punctuation, and numerous syntax errors give you away. In layman’s terms: you’re an idiot.

    FPD Detective

    January 27, 2013 at 7:02 am

  102. 3 days it is thursday, fpd detective? i had intended on all the fake replies. it is honorable and worthy of such site. what did i want from all this is not what i got and know why so thats why i say end to this with all the unwarranted comments and the lies thats a site like this ensues with a criminal following. why would anyone look here? my wife’s business and her pathetic ex. thats been buried. let her rise with her new life thats waiting for my girl, i love her more than any of your business and with that said i wish all you spectators well.


    January 31, 2013 at 12:01 am

  103. its 8 hours away now that i board to homeland and bury this before I begin my life with my dream and that is the life before me now and forever. my beautiful star. i honor this beautiful lady while all of you try to destroy her. that will never happen again now that she has me and all the love i have for her. for whatever reason you answer here you will not find me or my wife. we are happy to say that we have moved on to a beutiful life


    January 31, 2013 at 12:22 am

  104. The truth be told by a logical and supportive friend. This web site was designed for Michael Costin Jr. and his court case for abuse that should have landed him in jail for attempted murder, oh he did not want anything to do with the victim, should the moron take that advice from an attorney, paid by the state? he should have because he continued to take advantage of her good nature, holding her hostage all the while incarcerated, made her believe that he was something he could never be and Deborah, the kind and beautiful woman I Know, fell for it. Folks, Today thats history my best friend and Deborahs fiance is home. Dave grounded my friend with this knowledge and turned her life back to who she is and was before HIM. The Sad Decline Will Continue, Just thought it was important to comment here on behalf of an amazing couple that has survived distance and turmoil due to some weird past. Dave knows every last stich of Debs life and Deb, my best friend, has nothing to surfice. I wish both of them all of the best and a beautiful life, thats their wish. Welcome Home Dave, May your Dreams Come True, Deb and Dave…Screw the sad decline, we all want so much more from this pathetic drama and so be it, All that post???? I respect that it is dead.

    A Friend, Always Watching, my mutual friends

    February 5, 2013 at 11:27 pm

  105. I found this through a friend. We all are friends of sort. My profession is law enforcement. The screwed up comments are of a weird following and of such a sad and dramitic family as The Costins. No-one actually read in-part the story or sat with the victim, or if she and has chooses, survivor, Deb, for what I know and have seen, all of US court fact, She was dealt a wrong commitment from our so called justice system. I work out of Salem Ma. and have a tried and true friend in Falmouth, Dave. Funny how years go by and I can still remember the concern of the call and the vivid details while seeing the brutality for what it is. Had a homecoming party tonight for Dave at The Falmouth Yacht Club and the sight of Deborah provoked that lasting memory back in 2009, face swollen, marks around her throat from Mike strangling her, there were fingerprints from his hands around her throat. Dave and I grew up together on the North Shore, Myself in Swampscott and Dave in Marblehead, Football rivals. Small world in a sense. He told me about the turmoil and how he met Deborah, as he put it, his diamond. I saw her and remembered or how could I forget. It was a great reunion, it serves both needs, professional and friend, they are perfect together and light up the room with the love that they were able to find in a tough all the way around, situation. Lively homecoming and the highlight for me was the dance with Deborah held in Daves arms. I endorse their engagement, a purely nice couple who should most definitely share for the rest of their life. They are a mirror of each other right out of a love story in a movie. Small world and important to comment here for me. Some cases of DV stay with you and while this one did, the weird ending made my day. A very good ending, debs smile lights up the darkest of days and she was smiling all night long. Glad for the fact that they found each other in this big world. Meant to be,

    Rick at Salem Ma

    February 17, 2013 at 1:35 am

  106. Kudos to Dave and a brother from Tom and the force at the Nahant Police Dept. Deb is one of our own, Marine Bro. Take good care my friend and we are all relieved to hear Deborah McKie is is in good hands. In a town of less than 3800 we all know each other and some stand out, Deb is missed here on the mini island by so many, I hear her name all the time and see her perfect smile, all the while, you are marrying her and so I hear? ! Lucky Man and I feel that she is finally in good hands, beautiful girl, inside and out and humor galore! Small world and very big at the same time, Deb touches many a life every day, shelters. pay it forward, DV, AA, AlANON, food pantries, Sounds like a match, for all intense purpose, trying to say… yet we have a golden girl and Man. So Yes, we endorse you from Tom at the Little town of Nahant and Deborah from the world, down under

    Tom NPD

    February 20, 2013 at 12:24 am

  107. Thats true and bold here goes the drama. We are home 7 days now and looking like Mom is going to get her first sons wedding…OMG we are getting married

    one love

    February 20, 2013 at 1:03 am

  108. One love and somewhat…dramatic and in one sentence, weirdo, who are you and who really cares… We got this network of friends who actually care here and if you are commenting on Daves wedding…got the wrong date. Private at that . While it is my best friends first wedding, who are you to post, especially when his mother is deceased? April wedding as planned, pyscho, ahh one love, and not your business and this is Daves brother…Kevin at the helm. Closer than friends. my best friend and confidant, and my sister-in law. is my most welcome friend. Deb and dave were married in early December…The ceremony will take place in April for our friends and Family, true love does not wait, Dave had to leave on a Peace mission for the USMC and married his love before he left, december 5 however Both he and his fiance, Debbie want a ceromony as planned…one love, try not to mock, we post real here , so OMG we are getting married and yeah they already did so is your drama. Unworthy post here, I am just saying! Deb is my family now and is a beautiful wife to my brother so I can step in. I envy them. They are both inside and out the same in a very perfect way. God is good. Full circle and an the story from both would amaze you, these two are meant to be. I luv ya Bro and Sis…HAD TO COMMENT HERE!


    February 22, 2013 at 12:38 am

  109. In attempt to stop the dram here, and yes I am responsible for such. I enlisted the rage from my inner self onto fam and friends. I met my fiance, last year, around this time while on a call to her residence for a domestic issue and many times to follow. I sat with Debbie consoling her and eventually leading to her realizing in late August, that she was in need of protection. I met her once again and our force here in Falmouth provided the restraining order that she asked for and I sat with her once again…trying to make her realize how lost in that so called relationship with a sociopath. that she was. It was about a month later after many a wellness checks that I took upon myself, with my force behind me, that she actually spoke with me. It was late September that we became friends. Our friendship took off to a story book love or some fairytale. Here we are engaged, my brother had it wrong…reason for my comment as debbie heard about this and was upset. I asked her to marry me on Dec 5 before I left on the peace mission overseas, she said yes! I was wrong in engaging in any controversy here with her past and know that in my heart, she has taken all accounts to get beyond her past. That was something she is successfully over with therapy. In the months that elapsed in my absence she was able to meet the goals that she set for herself, living alone, reuniting with her family, her new vehicle, its all her and she did it and more. She wouldn’t let me help with her move to yes…her new home. She is one independent woman and I love her enough to give her that. I grew through this and as my fiance said to me earlier, “Life is short, we have to meet more than half way.” Thats my last comment. I am giving her independence and thats what she deserves, she loves the fitness center and time with her friends and most important, her career. We are planning an April wedding. Just wanted to clarify for the just following of my beautiful wife to be and those that unfortunatetly follow this. Needed to clarify…my bro, jumped the gun, so to speak. Would not care yet it was brought to my attention. Friends and Fam…we ask you not to support us here or ever on the internet. This is long over and there are other ways to support. Actually life has been back to quiet and normal here on the Cape, marrying my diamond and YES moving into our DREAM HOME, in April…we are ready and thankful, is all we need. Its my hope that Deborah never has to look back at any of this and my mission to interrupt ant controversy by giving her the life she defines and deserves. My wife, My love….My Family and friends, honor that. Thank you


    February 23, 2013 at 11:45 pm

  110. Funny how no one from the Costin side of things has posted in almost three months. It’s been entirely Dave and his multiple personalities. So who keeps the drama going? The ones who scream loudest about it in the first place. Mental illness, much?

    internet observer

    February 24, 2013 at 12:17 am

  111. Nice to hear and quite honestly, why would any Costin post here? Lies and embarrassment? Maybe? Make such fun of mental illness? Get a degree or compassion for use in a sense and as far as Dave, he is a knight in armour taking on this type of grief! He seems to speak with his conviction and apparently with absolute love. I, for one he came along, from the sounds of all of this, Deborah has found real love. Multiple personalities belong to a sociopath like Mike Costin. If there is such a thing?

    Just Sayin

    February 27, 2013 at 11:29 pm

  112. Regardless of Dave and Debs new life or the posts from her family and their friends, why would anyone condone abuse? This article is clearly about just that. Dave had it right, the Costin boy will abuse anyone who will give him that chance, looks like he has been doing it for all of his life. It is exactly who he is, he is a good fake, Satan like. He swayed this young lady and by the grace, she was saved…The guy has nothing goin for himself, seriously. Help the poor next victim! Or too blind to see.

    someone who cares

    March 3, 2013 at 1:14 am

  113. Independence House here. Supporting the defunct of the abuser, one stitch at a time. Recover much? He is going to have to after losing his entitlements that he he not entitled to, lol. Can we say degenerate? Loser as such! We got you on this my friends…


    March 9, 2013 at 12:45 am

  114. There goes my girl, three days to the big day…boom and fireworks as well. There you go my friend I love that you are gleeming the way you do! The yard will be ready for your big day and I admire the love that you have found as my reason to post here in part of disolving your past. Deb you know I would have buried this white trash a long time ago. From what I learned from being around you is the delicate flower you are. Wherever we go the theme on comment that you attract is the same. beautiful. My beautiful friend is not the same victim in this article. I know that I have given my notice of departure leaving you in my heart and soul forever girlfriend, always by your side. Or her side, just wanted to comment here as I know the brutal story and with my best friend to share with the world a true happy ending..Deb and our good friend Dave are getting married! Solid sista, you will never again be the so called victim. We got this forever and a day as we say. Its the best for Deb and so happy to share with her in this diversion of her journey. As a best friend, Deb this is our closure. Onto that beautiful life.

    best friend

    March 27, 2013 at 10:25 pm

  115. Good for you Deborah, getting free from the pig. I once lived in a slaughter house. Who do these so called men think they are? Popped up on my DV site. This guy is from accounts, a true criminal grabbing you by the throat. Thats attempted murder so sue him and the court and it sounds like you can. Best to you Deborah.


    March 29, 2013 at 11:25 pm

  116. Beautiful day Deb, let the rest of your life be the best of your life. XO

    Debs beautiful life

    March 31, 2013 at 1:19 am

  117. Home and Thank you! There are happy endings as we see this site revisiting some real trauma that I survived. Survival has been my asset and the end to my connection here, my family and friends feel that the world should know that I am ok. Rightfully so as this site is about abuse…My comment, :If you love yourself you will not ask yourself. If you question relationship or domestic violence go to National Domestic Violence Hotline or The Last Straw, Three quarters of this site is posted by imposters, that I know as Its my life being displayed here. Please if in question go to to link you to my real domestic violence survirviors website. Thank you. Your link is law enforcemont protected. Onto your beautiful life.

    Your beautiful life

    April 4, 2013 at 10:41 pm

  118. Link to National Domestic Violence/ The Last Its My life Now/ It seems as though this site reverts to DV. Many visits to my site and glad I can help. The search of domestic violence send many here. Thats the primary reason I agreed to divert here. Please continue to forward.

    DV Its your life now

    April 6, 2013 at 11:37 pm

  119. This contoversy was extremeley helpful. I found this through a DV site and as it appears Deb I need your strength, I hope you respond. You are amazing to be able to move away from all of this. I need your help with my escape from the same situation and your sucess gives me hope. Praying for that beautiful life that you speak of, I will get through to you. Thank you for the strand of hope. xoxoxo


    May 1, 2013 at 10:54 pm

  120. Thank you Mike Costin for your sick and twisted ways. You are a brutal abuser and because of the way you treated my soul mate, Deb, She is my wife today. The rest of her life may be the best of her life and onto the beautiful life that she speaks of, Had to publicize as some new beginnings have such endings. We are building our dreams together, in my arms of safety.For the rest that comment,just know that the article is real yet does not reveal the truth with the abuse this man inflicted. leave it to you to decide, does a young man spend 18 mo in jail for no reason, or what is the reason? Dirty rat of his own kind, kind of a coward amongst the rest for sure. What kind of a person inflicts such pain on another is what I ask?

    David FPD For my wife

    June 7, 2013 at 2:31 am

  121. True, David a DV site reverted me here. I got the link to Deb’s site and felt the need to comment here as well. I read all of these posts and validate debs stance on how she survived a brutal life with this sociopath She must be an amazingly strong woman. It is honorable of you David to take on this past of another, you must be an amazing guy. Deb is a lucky woman to find such man. Deb must be pretty amazing herself while I do not know her she replies as such. I wish you both the best and feel that all you have written you have met your soul mate, both. Lucky is what lucky does, onto that beautiful life. Way to go. Now i just need to do the same:( . True love shines like no other. David and Deb sounds like a match made in Heaven. Its in the bible ya know, best to ya both!

    a spectator

    June 9, 2013 at 11:36 pm

  122. So you are married and she keeps her maiden name? We know each other Dave, when are you going to man up and leave Deb alone? Yes you were good for her and now it’s up to her to decide. I do believe you are a good and solid man for my sister yet wow look at how you have reacted? Another sociopath in the making, just saying as such. She told me bits about you, yet does she even know about this? Thought so and believe me, you we are watching, her family and friends love her more than you will ever convince her you do. Posting here through e-mail notification and horrified at the posts. This is all news to me. Deb is happy, healthy and has completely moved on in her on life, without this type of man. Pisses me off that I have to qualify this, I could go on and on. So needless to say Dave and Mike, you both lost a forever friend while Deb is my best friend forever. You don’t have what it takes to be in her life and never will, she loved both of you in some weird way as through the years I believe. I also know she is a headstrong woman who sees the bright sun in the dark cloud and can stand on her own. She will find her true love and for the time being it is her children and her job. She became the Director of a program that brings tears to her eyes and that is her love and furthermore success. The woman is going places without all of you.


    July 4, 2013 at 11:45 pm

  123. I am her true love and I get all of what you are saying. BFF, that’s ok by us and I understand why you are acting this way based on our telephone talk earlier. My display here has a means to an end. She is so upset about this dialog so I am going to end this for both us us by saying Thank You to all for your sensitive input. I have been through the journey with Debbie and a year later, with me being overseas and her alone, we have made a love that can stand distance, trauma and whatever else throws our way. I have lied to protect my fiancé, and yes she has a ring and a date, as of today. I wanted to marry her months ago and with the www I thought she would be safe in my abscense. What I did not know and what we have argued about is that she is. Debbie is a very strong woman and a very loving woman. I know how to meet her half way and that has made all the difference. Reporting here as I am most happy to, with all that I have posted out of anger and jealousy over her past. I am the man that is taking your BFF, healed with My Wife to be, She accepted my real proposal tonight. I really read all of these posts tonight and now that I have the reality is that it really does not matter, as my fiancé states. What matters is in your heart and where you are going and where you have been, well that belongs to the author and we do not get to write our own story. What I do know is that in the caption quoted by this article where Mike says to Debbie, “you are going to die tonight,” she will live a very long and perfect life by my side. She is a survivor and a amazing woman to have survived all of this. Funny she never acts like she ever went through any pain. She has the most beautiful face eyes and heart as I hold her close to my heart and our hearts beat as one Thank you to all who realize what she has been through, all of the posts to her website and friends and family, it was daily therapy to get here with this purge and for months and a day at a time we are making promises for tomorrow is what this site needs to see and true to us.


    July 10, 2013 at 12:37 am

  124. I love you Dave, she is the most amazing friend and glad I got to know you. Truth be known, I could have sworn not to like you and yet I do, my family is complete with you . The first time I watched the look in your eyes as you both looked at each other, I knew that my sister is complete with you. There is not a family member or friend that could deny this. Finally with all that you have given to each other, I am comfortable in knowing that Deb is in good hands, true love prevails.


    July 23, 2013 at 12:33 am

  125. A Sorta fairy tale- Tory Amos. Mike, bro you missed out. Learned so much from this site. Dave and Deb, you got this and theres not much to sort out . My wife and I had some situations that could not compare. Dave you got gold my man. Who is the real man here some little boy who barks or the one who brings the bone home. Dave man, you got this my brother A Sorta Fairy Tale. Best to you both

    fellow officeof the law

    July 25, 2013 at 12:35 am

  126. I saw that loser Mike tonight, of course with a prostitute, just sayin. Yep the guy and Did you see that post of the ugly bleach blonde? Both must be prostitutes, look it anyway. Sad for Mike in a way, he lost a beautiful life and stunning girl. Funny he thinks prositutes are, …the sad life he looks at everyday. Survivors have the edge. Mike has a decent career as a garbage collector.

    my friend

    August 4, 2013 at 3:01 am

  127. Laugh out loud for my lovvee deb. Gotcha w/ FPD. You deserve the best of life. By your side and always with the broken windows and all, rest easy cause they have not seen the best of us yet. How is my friend? We want to hear from Dave, the privacy thing is getting old my man. How is Barnstable treating you, you don’t answer our calls or Debs FB msg and I know how you hate FB so you don’t answer emails? I know you hate the f**up in question and have used this site to check in so we miss you my friend. Debs office is down the street and we have been out there twice in two days with alarm issues and to her old house and as it came up about and well, your engagement. I asked her out and know you cant blame me. I got a call to Turner and there she was standing and stunning with the ring on the finger and the rejection and yes we are talking about a broken window. You got a good girl my friend. She runs a program that keeps people off the street and everyone loves her so come out of hiding in your nice job and in your nice home with your nice wife to be, down by the harbor, love it my man. Look up her name and this is what comes up after Facebook, ya read it after all it is an abuse site, links and all that’s why I am posting here. Get in contact somehow? We all want the best for you and Deb.


    August 8, 2013 at 11:41 pm

  128. LOL Deb says, posting after the obvious, our alarm malfunctioned. Getting heat and while I posted here to destroy with words, Mike the pathetic Costin, I get no joy anymore, My fiance loathes him and sleeps well, her family and mine are ours. Not sure about Mike and prostitutes, especially bleach blondes which directly is like him and nasty as that is the life of a loooosser, and is exactly him. I believe water reaches its own level and common sense for all that post here and even read this. My joy lives with my private life with my fiancé and after a year of healing and building a home, family and success professionally, we are moving on. I LOVE DEBORAH completely and with all of this behind us and both of us reacting whole, we are upon great things. I have a new position with PTSD survivors and first and ultimately understand my better half. Thankful God has better plans for me, Deb and OUR LIFE..

    My life

    August 13, 2013 at 11:33 pm

  129. Trusting and AMEN.<3. Thank you as we are onto a beautiful tomorrow. Life is most perfect today with safety, family, friends, a beautiful home with central air and landscapers, as it is summah, lol, outside of Boston, on Cape Cod! We have found our beautiful life Dave and yesssss I am posting here. Its all about the journey and ours is that sorta fairy tale. 11 months and counting to Our day of freedom. From the fragile spirit in this article, to our own journey, with you by my side, we are on to beautiful things. My eternal love, we look forward from this day on. Thank you for all who have posted and while Dave says…many…I cannot and will not look back…Thank you for our support. This was my tragic or not so, site. While being abused and saved, the girl meets her Love and no more to be said. Our Happy and soulful ending here. I never look back unless my children are involved, I hold all memories of substance and beauty. I hold my life with my ex- Mike M and my children, my career with Fairwinds as director and my life with my fiancé Dave true and testimonial. I believe we are going to achieve great things with all of this nasty past behind us. We are on our way. The abused Marrissa is now working in DA office, J Blodgett, as a paralegal. My son is ten yrs in with the USCG and my little one is a sophomore, on the deans list at Lasell. And the abused, self has moved onto a position of FHR Director! Whole-heartedly, My love, Thank you as this has to be difficult, as it was for myself. We share a life that only fairytales are made of. Posting here to validate, I have found true and safe LOVE. Mike Costin will always be somewhat of an interruption in my mind. Like a fly that when you finally swat it, its gone, and gone forever. While they pester, stamp them out and who knew they exisited? Like a fly, he was bothersome however with a swat, he was thankfully gone…to bother another.:( Onto my most beautiful life, XO. Forever to you all that post here. We have to close the book when it is done and this one has a happy ending, if you read between the lines !


    August 20, 2013 at 11:19 pm

  130. It would seem that most of this, well for months is someone else sharing. I can see Debs last post as real. I belong to a group that she is in and heard her problem with statements that someone feels are true. I can tell you that this article is pathetic on Mikes part and understand why believers post. We all want what is best for Deb. She is on a mission and has the best survival skills. Social media and who gets a thrill of it is unattractive. As an advocate to eliminate this type of media and invoke privacy, let it be visible here, most of this is social abuse. For all that have posted in Debs name, her children, friends, and Dave The url and site is being thoroughly investigated. What we have determined to date is that this article is real. Most of which that follows is some sporadic posting of many who actually adopt the verbage and made up a life that an author would like. Stop the story in Deborahs words. Its my stance to stop this story.

    http./Independence House

    September 1, 2013 at 11:29 pm

  131. To Michael’s Mother and other family members: Don’t justify those ignorant people with a response because ignorance is forever. What Michael and his siblings went through is something they will always remember. They will never forget but can manage to live a happy and successful life. For those sending hurtful messages you don’t know how your life would turn out if you’ve witnessed a parent being brutally beaten to death and you’re unable to do anything. Furthermore, why don’t the ones talking pay for him to go to college, learn some skills, and life coaching. He’s not any different than the rest of us, we all need help from time to time. If it hasn’t been for some in our corner supporting us just think about where we’d be.


    September 20, 2013 at 4:24 pm

  132. That is by far the most hysterical post yet, Faith. I am Debs boyfriend, best friend, Fiance. He blew through more than 50 thousand dollars in money earned by his family or for his family. He ruined lives in his path with that money and he could have had it all. From what I am dealing with right now he is still that inconsiderate lazy so called man he was supposed to be. Deb is an honest and loving woman, she confided in me that she talked with Mike last week with her restraining order is expired. She said she felt for him as he is now homeless and has got himself in some more legal trouble and like she said he has no-one. I am a patient man with this most perfect woman but I am getting very worried that I am not reaching her as of a half hour ago she told me she sent him 50 dollars by wire for food. She gets embarrassed by this kind of controversy yet I feel the world should know that Mike C attempted to take my Angels life and how would her children feel. She is the best Mother I could ever know. Her 3 children are all just as beautiful as she, good people who care about society and their own Families. I have had the opportunity to get to know them over the past 10 months and feel confident that their Mom is in the best of her life away from the life that Mike was so called giving her. All he gave her was heartache, physical abuse and mental and with our back and forth relationship because of him, I know she has grown. He has a check a month worth 1100.00 and she says he works so why is he homeless and still bilking money from a beautiful woman he abused. Drugs and nasty shit, bars, he is a womanizer that’s why. I live on The Vineyard and we have a home in Falmouth and Deb has a place of her own in Falmouth for her independence. I give her that and her place is well protected as I said I am a past Falmouth Police Detective and now working as a Detective in Edgartown. I am posting as I admire her honesty and her loyalty. Her loyalty to this guy is over though as I am home in Falmouth with her right now, disrupting our lives for the last time and she says Dave I am who I am and I love you and don’t want to lose you. No, Deb you will not lose me just keep your focus on your profession and leave the likes of Mike behind. Her clients come with a lot less baggage and her children have all they need from her. I am not angry yet excuse the pun, trying to give her the wacky independence she asked for. She is doing a great job with her life, career, school, children and me. I am about to marry the girl of my dreams. So next time you post in Mikes defense, think twice , he had an angel and that angel was meant for me. Why do you all feel for this abusive, drug addicted, alcoholic, manipulative, fake, Social Security taking kinda guy. He hit his own Grandma??? Elated to save my wife to be and her honesty is impeccable. Just thought you should know Faith.


    September 22, 2013 at 10:43 pm

  133. Stop please and awful is what you are to embarrass me and yourself like this. To Dave this is not some chat site so now you have some serious exposure for both of us to deal with. This is not helpful what so ever.I have defended myself here one too many times and this is the last. Mike has had his share of pain so let him suffer without your input and let God heal. Enough already.

    Deb M

    September 23, 2013 at 10:06 pm

  134. I let Deb be herself and when she told me today that love is unconditional, I believe her. I have given her the space she needs to get over all of the nasty(my words) past with this guy(being proactive). Deb said to me during our dinner with friends that she had to help Mike with his pleas so I said to my beautiful fiancé I would not expect anything else and that’s in part why I love you, the other is your loyalty and honesty. She feels for Mike and that is who she is. Deb has grown and realizes the difference between real love and that of a loved one. Deb and I are so much more than that and want the world of this following to know, He solicits her for all that he needs yet he should realize that the day has come for her decision to be with me is one that has been well thought out. Finally she is in a much better place with the the knowledge and love she needs and deserves. I had to end this story the proper way…Deb..rightfully for us and thank you. The world should know that after all, you are happy and as this story started with some sadness that you will never feel that again, in my arms forever, our beautiful life begins finally with this night. We have no reason to ever post here again.


    September 29, 2013 at 10:46 pm

  135. Hey Deb, so if you and Dave are engaged and share a home, why couldn’t you just tell him this stuff in person? You both seem a little unhinged and dramatic, imo.

    west coast observer

    September 30, 2013 at 9:23 pm

  136. Hey Deb doesn’t have to tell him in person, West Coast. It has been my mission to have Mike exposed. I am going to keep rectifying as I believe strong and against abuse towards woman. I have two homes which have been left to me by proxy and belong to the two of us yet for the present she chose to live in Falmouth on her own and for her family and job so I respect whatever she needs to do to heal. One day we will be together She does tell me everything and she wears the ring beautifully with our engagement. Like I said we are onto that beautiful future and it is a day of respect and love, one day at a time. No one is unhinged or dramatic here West Coast, just those of you that cannot read or comprehend. Its my mission and one day this will all be in Debs past so we can live the life she deserves. Deb frowns on me posting here yet I frown on her continued involvement. Once this guy is out of her existence so will this article. That was my doing that she looked back and posted here. I know exactly what she is going through and I am watching and supporting her all the while. I love this woman as if you could not tell. That she will know with the protection, guidance and shield that I owe her, she is an amazing gal and forever in my heart. And BTW my name is not Dave, No abuse condones this. Her name is in part already yet I am and we do protect her every move.

    Dave/ Alias

    October 1, 2013 at 9:47 pm

  137. Thank you my love and while this has nothing to do with this Gawd awful site, I appreciate that you have no longer posted here. I know you are watching and want all the spectators to know that we have a beautiful future in sight with your last training afar. I cannot wait until Dec 5 when you come home. I miss you sooo much and am ready to live our life. It has not been easy for both of us yet a year later as I promised and you have waited so patiently, I am ready to take that next step. Funny Mike said to me recently that he heard I was making this into a love story?! If he only knew that one can recover from abuse and there is someone that can take his place in his idea of love. I did not have to make this up it was developing as I was waking up. Did he not think I was worthy of being loved? I have learned so much about me and with the support of my love and friends and family. I have that beautiful life today and my strongest supporter, my fiancé is coming home in 5 weeks to OUR HOME! I am whole today and going to marry the love of my life.<3 The man who showed his love with patience, kindness, selflessness. I put you to the test my love and you met all the challenges .because of who you are and meant for me. I love and miss you so much.
    I told you you would be surprised! I know you needed this from me and would do anything for you as you have done for me. Yes our life remains private from here on. It is my testimony to US. I am one lucky girl to have this amazing life! Please do not respond to my post as I believe this is all you need.XOXO


    November 6, 2013 at 11:25 pm

  138. I promised to only tell you and the rest of the damn world that I am coming home. So proud of you babe, your strong will, honesty and love is all I need. Helleva trip and God is good, be on the homeland with you sweetheart at the Falmouth Yacht Club homecoming on the 5th. Let em all know that I am on my way, Marry me AMAZING?

    Your Love, my amazing fiance

    November 30, 2013 at 12:24 am


    this is so old

    November 30, 2013 at 1:30 am

  140. Fresh in my mind so bring it. Be back on Dec 5 and I really do give a fuck asshole. Tired of this shit that my fiancé has had to deal with. Man up because I am about to be home and never so old when its so fresh in her sleepless nights and I hold her trembling body while this faggot, Mike would punch her face in. Old you degenerate I do give a fuck. Many do, they just don’t know about this site and my mission to exhibit all of the abuse that this coward set on my wife to be. laughing all the way to the bank with gold in my hands. I will treat Deb right for the rest of our lives. Yea this may be an old post but fresh as we move on. She has had to be strong with me overseas twice since we got together and she stands just as strong as I do with this country. Amazing is what our love is about and not old with the world to know or who ever looks here as my way of fixing the broken smile that once was. Everyone loves a happy ending and if ya don’t talk to me I will be in North Carolina on the 2nd, debrief and in Boston on the 4th, homecoming on the 5th at The Falmouth Yacht Club. Resolve this I want to and will get past it when and only when this leaves my fiancés life once and for all. Na its not old at all…read this. I am a pretty stable guy and this bullshit excellerates my mission to just get home . Deb has all the protection she needs. 4 days away and a force behind me. I will not post here once my babe is in my arms. We have other plans as we move away and onto her beautiful life. She is so far from this article and can’t stand that she was ever broken. ya all don’t know her, she is a quiet, assertive, beautiful and loving woman with so much before her and deserves the best and I am honored to be that man. That’s why we post here, for her and until its done so bring the shit and let me deal so we can put it all behind her. I was so self absorbed in career for my age of 35 yrs and gained nothing until I met Deb. I never wanted a wife or children and for the first time in my life I have and love the family that we have and want to spend every last day Deb and her family. Post here and bring it on cause you have met your match and we will let it die here now and ya know I am gonna win. Coming home and this is not old just some fucked up scar, sorry babe. Saying it as it is..


    December 1, 2013 at 12:11 am

  141. On the Homeland and checking the status. Thus far it looks as if we are out of the war zone. I am first an Public Officer of the Law, second a Detective and third the luckiest man. I met Deb on a 911 call 2 yrs ago Just short after her sister passed away with a request for protection as then her boyfriend (Mike) was in her car, in her driveway and smoking something as she thought crack. Earlier she got news that she may have cervical cancer and he told her, by reports that he could not live without her so he threw her glass of wine across the kitchen and while she was just trying to relax, she got scared of an old pattern. She called ME and would never have imagined I would still stand by her side today. Almost two years later, with all of our ups and downs she is still with ME and I HER. So ya its a love story and ours. Glad I met this site to say I met my true love and she is going to live the best of her years in a home with me on The Vineyard. Paradise is we Island folk call it. If you ever actually looked on Deb’s behalf she is living a life free from abuse and one that she DICTATES! I will be home with her on the 6th and will miss my homecoming . She wanted to announce our engagement at The Falmouth Yacht Club on the 5th. The girl has some damn amazing strength and I put this out here for your entertainment. Mine lies with our love, strength and commitment to each other as I will be taking my babe home to OUR HOME on the Vineyard Friday Dec 6. We will be married in the New Year so best to you all that seek and know she has found the best hands to hold her.


    December 2, 2013 at 11:21 pm

  142. Post here to apologize to my baby, Deborah by the way of me and last names. You will be taking my last name soon and in the New Year! I love that you are whole and I am close to home. This absurd site tells of a victim in distress and you are whole, not cause of me and cause of the work you did to finally be whole with me. Girl I could not be with you if you were not the lady you are today. Sense about yourself and the words, your family values and selfless acts. Yes my love some things are private and will be from now on. The world should know that you are not that victim and never will be again in my arms. Homecoming as I will be home, tomorrow. The best of my life will be the rest of my life here in Beantown and forever spent a day forward with my beautiful wife to be Deborah…can’t keep us apart 13 hrs. and counting. Both of our lives are about to change baby, forever., It’s the best feeling She says pathetic as I do not believe in social media. Baby its next best thing as I show the world that you made it out of this near life ending event and I am the knight that was lucky to have saved the girl (My love). Bored outta my skin at Logan, 4 hrs to my flight..HOME.


    December 5, 2013 at 12:01 am

  143. I want you all to know that I love to watch her sleep. Deb was unsettled with my remarks here yet home and all is the way it should be. I get caught up in her past with jealousy and as I realize, jealousy has no place in love. While I do not condone social media…her facebook page to which I monitor for her safety, I do have to post here as it was here to begin with. Deb is living the life she should and always will be with me. I am the man who took this post the hardest. I met the girl and fell in love right away. Yea I was a police officer and kept good boundaries but the tear stained face held the eyes of an angel and the will to survive, love that knew no limit. There are moments in our lives that change everything and the moment I am talking about changed my life forever. While she sleeps and I speak, it is not of vengeance it is with pleasure. We holders of the law…Me a P.O, Detective and a layman, USMC Trainer and Chief.While I rank so does she. I am the man who made her better and always will. Look back and realize she was meant for me, not the battered woman in this article. She is living the life that she deserves, love, safety and security. The girl buys what she want, when she wants and has two homes and yea one is on an island. Love watching her sleep, she is amazing in every way. I have the urge to tell the world how much I love her. Sick at wat this site meant and glad that I got to be the man who fixed all that.


    December 8, 2013 at 12:03 am

  144. She gave up on telling me not speak my mind. Did I tell you all that I love to watch her sleep? I am goin to have that much long overdue convo with the person of interest in this article. Deb and I are finally settling back home and I only missed a night which happened to be the night that She finally told Mike that she was engaged. I am not the jealous kind yet her undying love for tis guy put me to the test. today I realize that she loved him as she does for another reason. She loves all who need her and that is not true love, something we are working on. I am not anything like this guy: not abusive in any way or a womanizer as I am a committed man. I think of XX exposure as disgust, I see beauty in a woman that exudes of herself, how she holds onto her beliefs and in her eyes. Deb talked to me about cheating and porn addiction to which Mike was about and my response is that is so F @###++ up. Yea the guy has one more strike against him and not in our world. I have no desire to look at whores which brought my thoughts on his abuse to an all new level. The piece of work gives guys like me a bad name. Who the Fuck would really think of exploitation as sexy…fucking sickko. yea he fucked up her head yet we are getting through. I am not that guy ever. I got to this point in my life working hard, not in bars with the whores looking for a guy. I believe all the hard work and my beliefs les me to the one and only girl that I was so dam lucky to meet. We come from the N. Shore and 10yrs age difference, met on a call to protect and we are both the better for all the days that we spent apart. We will be forever together and I would do anything for Deb and she is beginning to have faith in me. God is good while I was a self absorbed kinda guy, trying to make a life and lots of money, Avoiding family it was that call that changed my life and I woke up 35 and pumped to find my damsel in distress. Its meant to be for me and I am fixing what ails my fiance, my one and only. I feel like a kid again. My last thought is that Mike and I need to have a talk about seizing further convo with my wife to be. No threats just saying all has to end. She is so amazing and did I say, I love to watch her sleep>?I The abuse in her head is almost past us and not a day goes by that I cover that. day in and days past I am with her for better or worse while I am here or away I and we are working on her life and our life. I didn’t want children and have a whole lotta of family now. Things to come and happy endings here for my family including my step daughter Marrissa who fought through the same. Readers here should realize that the McKie girls are true survivors once at the hands of the abusive or wait sorry folk the article in part has to do with The sad outpouring of support given to an abusive family. WTF. I love to watch her sleep.peacefully in my arms and my step daughter safe and sound. Screw this site, gonna meet this guy once again on our own and put this away is what I need because its me that is so ripped about this and its really me that has to move us all on. You gotta know that Deb is not a victim and Mike is a narc in the truest form. End of F&^% up story. I am giving her the life that she deserves.


    December 11, 2013 at 11:55 pm

  145. I must say I am sorry for all the press that I shared here on this God awful site. Deb and I have been reunited once again after months with me being away and spent the past amazing week together and planning our future. What was most disturbing to my Fiance was my anger and jealousy over her past so I agree with the past few hours to think and having to leave my love on the mainland with my work week about to start again and hers. We together are beyond all of this as she says and its my problem if I cannot resolve her past as she has done. She is a better person than I and she says isn’t that what love is made of…finding the strength in each other? Learning and the most lucky guy around so I thought Deb is correct in putting this away and I guess that all the closure I need. She told me that she asked Mike to wish her the best in her own closure and I really don’t give care as why would that matter. I know she was close to marrying this guy and I today am the one she loves and the real man in her life,, she held my homecoming and announced our engagement so that’s all I need. I am sorry for all over the past year that I have said and while I meant it, it dies not matter Deb is so on with her forward thinking and my issues have ended here tonight. She was never the victim in this article, she is my survivor and forever in my arms. I honestly have to thank Mike for treating her so badly cause if it weren’t for that I would not have had the luxury of saving my beautiful wife to be. Sorry for you Mike and my love I hope this will surfice.


    December 15, 2013 at 11:28 pm

  146. Yea screw all that, she has scars and they don’t heal that easy. I cant honestly be sorry here as her hurt continues. She called me at 1am saying she can’t sleep even with the sleep medicine. She said she had yet another phone contact with this guy, Mike and she needed me. That’s why I I am here and took the ferry home to hold her and let her feel safe for another night. Today she was still reelin from past pain cause of this guy Mike so I took her home to our home and she is all the better. I get PTSD and will not let my love down, goin to stand by her. Do you all get what this fuck up did to her? Let the world know how this shit affects a life. We stand strong and did I tell ya all peek freaks that I love to watch her sleep and safe. She won’t let me talk to the punk and I get that. The mature way to handle is barring his contact to her again. Spectators should know that I won’t play with the narc and will respect my lady so who the fuck does he think he is contacting a woman, a lady, who he abused in every way and interrupts our lives. Did you all read some of her fucked up story with this guy who still fucks with her head? All the poor Mike bullshit and all the cash he used and abused is so fucked up. If the puke had a human heart how could he look her in the eye and punch her face in. I so want to meet the puke, punk, fuck up, narc, I fuckin hate his being. But its all ok when I look into my girls eyes, so strong and loving and she tells me all I need and want is you. She loves me and that is all the revenge that I need and since we met have made her feel safe. She so knows all of this and if she didn’t she would not have let me in. So strong is she and stronger are we with all the shit we have been thru and it makes us all the stronger. No lies here, no hurt, no abuse only home and living a life unto another. So na I am not sorry. Deb and I assert our differences and I am her man and I assert that I am taking her care and love the most serious. I love her through and through, soul to soul and we will get through. to hell with sorry for him, what was I thinking my love. I watch her sleep with peace now and hold her all night long in a safe way so screw all this shit with the way Mike the punk fucked with her. That story sure did end a long time ago. Just healing a scar and I ain not goin anywhere. Marrying her whole self on her terms. Did I say I am not sorry?


    December 18, 2013 at 11:30 pm



    December 23, 2013 at 11:38 pm

  148. Hey Dave, lay off the booze, man.


    December 24, 2013 at 5:06 am

  149. And he finally speaks. Not of truth while this guy works too much to drink. See that’s the difference between us Mike and why I expose you here where it all in truth be told and is public. You see we could talk all day back and forth with your fucked up version of MY girlfriend and wife to be yet I know all the drama and lies that you believe so its a good day here at home with my fiancé in Falmouth getting ready to see our families on the NS hers in Peabody and with my Fam in Marblehead. By the way did she tell you that she has a 9 room home on the ocean in Vineyard Haven? Mike, Deb tells me how she has helped you with cash and the bullshit you tell her to get it so I think it fair to say that you may have to lay off the booze or whatever is taking the cash the government pays you to be the degenerate that you are. See Mike you and I should talk and hash this shit out, Man to boy but I love her too much to screw this up so I respect her request that I stop caring about her past and she said that to me tonight on our way to church. She was anxious tonight when I got her so I have to say Mike I (in Debs words) have to let it go. I will so peace and good will to you. I will always be the better man and by the way did I say I love to watch her sleep at all lately? I get to hold her all night and I know she is going to be ripped at all this but a man has to do what he does to stand against the enemy. I saw you once at Fal PD and it was because of your torment with words that I investigated. You were so wrong buddy about this beautiful woman so thank you is all I have to say. Words and meeting you on the street would never do, I love her and care so deep in the soul so back off with your pleas and trying to interrupt our life. You know nothing us and theres a unity here its US so where you think booze is talkin at 5am with your reaction we were sleeping in each others arms. You musta been goin to the gym. Nothing left to say, fair enough. Move on pal. I so tired of this for her and US. The best of me says Merry Christmas and recognize the meaning. Peace.


    December 25, 2013 at 12:33 am

  150. yeah, I know the Vinyard Haven house real well cuz I been in there. Seen the girl sleepin too. What you don’t about when you ain’t around lol


    December 25, 2013 at 2:07 am

  151. LOL at you. Deb tells me everything and cameras don’t lie. Have them on every doorway to both our home and hers so WTF are you trying to say here? I will talk with you in person someday Mike when you want to show your face. Deb is upset about me posting on this site so if we are going to make it, its about me letting this rest. I don’t worry about her cheating with you of all, I just worry about her. Yea I have been away and most of my worry was about her safety so its about you trying to get into her life that will always bother me. Can you blame me as if you had a mother, daughter, friend or sister who was abused by a guy who supposedly loved her? You really think that I would ever leave her unprotected? I know her every move and that’s why I know all about what you are trying to do. Not goin to happen her heart belongs with me and I will talk with you on some other device aside from this. Deb asked me not to ever exploit her life her and it took a helluva time to realize she is right. I am wrong for hurting her here. I wanted to get to you and have so my job is done with your response as immature and so far from the truth. Did not have anything else? Could have described what our home looks like, can you see the ocean, the cliffs, the panormanic view with all the windows and the seclusion. Are you really implying that she would let street trash into our life while I was away/ You really do not know her and I do. I got the girl and she is not a possession but the best part of my life. I know her worth and goin to stop obsessing about her past. Leave it here Mike or deal in another way. My baby is sleeping in my arms right now and don’t want this to affect her sleep. You know that I love to watch her sleep. Good day to ya and anytime away from here we can hash it out.


    December 25, 2013 at 11:15 pm

  152. man everybody in town knows your business, the whole truth. You can’t keep your damn mouth shut and now there’s talk of how your girl is done with ya. sorry, man


    December 26, 2013 at 12:01 am

  153. Not your issue pal, and I put it out there to exploit you. What about my business and how the town knows? What town are we talking about? She wants space is all you and the town crier needs to know with my asinine comments and how I want to protect her so what do you all know? Get the F*** out of my life and hers and we will be just fine, the way it should be. I have been the best to her in time of need and no matter what will be with her when she realizes the truth in love. So I have no worry here Mike when she needs me I am here and when I am away and she is wanting me I find a way to be with her, unlike you I don’t bruise her in anyway. I don’t hurt her in anyway way except here with her screwed up past so grow the fuck up with your bullshit that Debbie is done with me. Where did you get this from and how do you decifer from needing space to done? I am the man and you are the boy who could not get how to love this beautiful woman. This shit is on you pal as I watch her sleep even after her asking for space. I am here with my girl right now so I don’t know what you all are talking about. Sorry baby I am a Marine and always stand up to a challenge and you are gonna love me even more one day for it, you will see as your eyes stay open. I never back down with my beliefs when they are bred in my soul and baby you are in my soul with all we have to stand for I am right here with you now and forever. Sorry if this hurts you. I have known whats best fir you over the past yr. and always will. Get this punk outta of your life is what I will do and in my arms the confusion should lie. I am fixing this all here and now., Just remember how you fought for him and tell me when Mike you fought for you? Never is a good guess but ask yourself that question next time you decide to post shit you have no idea about. I am a fighter by nature and stand up for what I believe in for another unlike your selfish self so who the F___ do you think you are talking to wit this bullshit. I love this girl and not backing down in anyway ever, I am right by her side in times of confusion and holding her tight and giving her space but not ever letting her go. That’s the difference between us Mike and she knows it, I love you Deborah, my best friend, confidant, we will get through all of this and while you sleep with me watching and protecting you just know that guy in your past is just a voice in your head. Look to me I will never leave you or cause you any real pain. Just saying what needs to be said.


    December 26, 2013 at 10:16 pm

  154. posting here in support of my brother and his beautiful fiancé. they are in difference right now cause of all of her hurtful past and this site with truth be told. Debbie is a beautiful person and love her so much. She is so right for my brother and he loves her so much. Saw this first hand with the brief visit at Christmas. When a woman is abused as such it is detriment to support. We all love you Ken aka Dave and Debbie. Pay no attention to all of this and remember how and why you met. Looking forward to your wedding and love you both so much.


    December 28, 2013 at 11:47 pm

  155. She does what she does cause she is a caring person. Late to say but should be said. We had a our first healing session today with her counselor and I myself am so pleased that I did this with her and for her (us). She does not care anymore if I explain here how she got through this tourture and became whole again on her own. yea she did go through it and it was her mind that had to get through it so while she has many a friend and myself in and outta her life in the past year, she survived and made the prosperous life she has today. Glad to say here that I am the next biggest part of her life today, her children first. She never lies and sometimes I wished she would’ve. I get it and its done here and today. I was feeling so defeated that she could not figure out why she gives a guy who is so outta her league the time of day. she does not really care about him just the fact that he is a person in need and a person she once thought she loved. I am relieved that I have the love for her that I fought all of this aside. I speak here cause I started this long ago when we met outta anger and times away with the bastards exposure. I know so many people who knew her back then, fellow officers from Salem and Nahant who are friends of mine with me growing up in Marblehead who could not see what she or why she found any good in Mike. So opposite. She shared that she has gone the extra mile with him and most likely never loved him in the way she loves me. She got caught up in a traumatic bond with him and that’s not love at all. Whatever it was she and I commited to each other while me making her my first priority and not working as much. Deb said the NO CONTACT will be enforced if he ever contacts her again. The only reason her ever contacted her was to gain cash from her every time with his wacked plea that he is homeless. WTF would a grown man ask a girl he abused so horrid ever ask the abused for anything, cause he programmed her and she has been deprogrammed by a guy who actually does love her with the differences that we got through. How and why would you not find her to be the diamond in my sky. Flowers, jewelry, protection, nights out, spa treatments I want to give her my world and one that I did not know I had in me until I met her and she unknowingly showed me what love is. Its action not reaction so we are good and have to tell ya all that. Mainly Mike who should know that you are a seedy punk who will never get through again, I know every last word you had with her and how she said she was wrong. Na shes not wrong you are and always have been. degenerate and watch that SSDI disappear real soon and watch your back out there on the North Shore. I don’t need to have this convo cause I like my job and with a punk like you I am on the other side of your immaturity. I hate you for her and for who you are and will always be. I know punks like you can’t be reformed Exposing you is my gain. I got the girl and she is not a possession yet a diamond in my sky that will always light up my life and I hers. We are lucky people. Ya all should know what Mike is about and how Deb will always be treasured and taken care of cause I love this girl and feeling lucky Mike is who he is. Watching her sleep with peace gives me peace.


    January 2, 2014 at 11:17 pm

  156. Thank the heavens for you. We were so concerned that she would go back. I know my best friend better than anyone and I am impressed at the fact you actually know more than I. She is in good hands now and its been way too long. We grew up together and I would never have imagined the woman I know would let a man control her the way she had been. Ken I believe she is finally happy and I am the same, you brought her back to her own, family and friends and I want you to stay like she does. Hang in there and its posting here that gives me gratitude with the night in question. I picked up my best friend from the Salem PD all broken and bruised that or this night with the article. 2 days before Christmas she had to scar her children with her broken face so today and many years later she is in a much better place. I for one know she adores you . Just slow down, don’t worry she is not going anywhere. You are awesome going to counseling with her and must know what should be known between a man and his future wife. Finally my sister has found the man to complete her. I love you guys.

    My best friend

    January 4, 2014 at 12:10 am

  157. Read it and sad. That’s not my life at all. Thanks for the façade and truth be not told. You will never know me. At all.

    Deb M/Survivor

    January 24, 2014 at 11:56 pm

  158. With your permission: I get all of what you went through and sorry I made this about me. We brought it back to how real love is. For you spectators: I met Deb on a 911 call in 2012, where I met Mike, where it was evident that he was abusive towards her. I was working as a P.O in Falmouth at the time. Time heals all that ails with all of the façade you speak of and all of US that you allow me to speak of. Never will you be sad again and I finally know you so all of me loves all of you and I give you all of me. All of me loves all of you. I miss you, my beautiful lady. I will love you more than you will ever know and you know this so come back and know I scream my love to for you to all that hear me.


    March 1, 2014 at 12:17 am

  159. Through the bullshit we weave. While I am away again the sheep in wolves clothing cries. Yea Mike pulls his bullshit as he feels he can. No I am Debs best friend and never letting go. I try not to post here yet somehow with all the calls and texts have to let you all know what kind of abuser the fuck he is. I am home again and never giving up on my beautiful girl. Safe is she is with me. I love this girl and she is realizing this. I am not going anywhere even when I am forced to be away


    June 6, 2014 at 11:44 pm

  160. The stupid fuck is part of some Domestic violence out in Beverly. Laughing at you pal. He who stands in the face of violence against women should suffer the greatest of suffering. Fuck off pal, I protect my girl andher daughters. I know every move you make and you are the definition of sheep in wolves clothing. Remember I am a detective,. I have you on my radar, sicko. Going to bat for a drugabuser, womenabuser. Ya jus lik you and why I protect my babe, sleeping in My ARMS. Fuckin loser.


    June 15, 2014 at 10:15 pm

  161. You are a wolf in sheeps clothing, got it right now, Deb told me I had it wrong. We got the damage youdid to perfect face fixed. 5000 dollars is no big deal to a man like me so why don’;t you talk about it you fucking shallow ugly fuck? Yea dancing around the showdown in Beverly you would be fucked,I want to see that. Soon, hahaha.Just you wait, Karma is bitch, you like that word right? HAHA piece of shit.


    June 15, 2014 at 10:27 pm

  162. I’m done here with her past. Thank God after our last therapy session that she is really healed and has moved on. This guy or puke or whatever you saviors like to think of him is some kind of devils work. no human does what this fuc did and lives a decent life. All I can say is Deb lives the beautiful life that I promised her. want you all to know that this punk did vicious acts towards her and its all in documents with courts, police records, hospital records, look it up. I am glad we fought this fight and won. I exposed a dark existence within her and she is healed through hell and high water. All you fake fucks that look here the devil has your back. Deb and I will be married on july 4 with the grace of GOD. I want to thank Mike for bringing such a beautiful person into my life. The last of us, living OUR beautiful life now and forever. Feel what you want about the narc. he is a hundred percent devil and karma is a bitch.


    June 18, 2014 at 10:28 pm

  163. Again, he speaks. My girl is the most honest being out there. Just had to say it out loud here. I blocked the # and she caved so what. She is my beautiful, trustworthy, princess. I got this and he don’t and never will. sick of telling the world but the puke just don’t get it. Its real what we got, Deb and I. I have gone the mile with her hurt and I thank The Lord that she trusts me with all of her truth. Her beautiful life is what I am about. Good day spectators, I am never far and truth always told. Narc can’t pry his way in ever. she is beyond the lies. I am about the truth, that’s why I am by her side as she lies in my arms sleeping. This is what real love is, taking the fast ferry home when you gotta go to work in the am to comfort the one you love. Soon there will be no distance. There is a mean to an end with this guy, So proud to have this honest beauty as my soon to be wife.


    June 22, 2014 at 9:35 pm

  164. Every time I make this mistake of posting here lose my life, wife so I am done. Yall don’t care about Deb and peer here for facts about Mike so learn that he is a fucked up mess and I saw it for myself, live the residual effects everyday. No matter cause one year from Friday I am retired from the USMC and wedding plans with the girl of my dreams at The Nobska Lighthouse Falmouth Ma. Coincidentally my retirement at 38 and our wedding day fall on the day that means independence for us both. I never talked to Mike as Deb asked and will not for our future and promise my last post here. I a fortunate my lady understands my revenge. God day all. Wish us the best In 2015


    July 2, 2014 at 10:31 pm

  165. Just when I thought I had it all with this girl she leaves with I had enough of you trying to fix my past. I fought a battle I just cant win. Sorry baby girl I will be here and love you on and on. This guy did a number on my girl. See this punk for what he is. I am not going away and don’t care about all the exposure here, it needed to be said. I don’t back down that easy.


    July 19, 2014 at 11:11 pm

  166. Wreaking havok as this moron seems to do. I will be back home on Monday and not going anywhere for the next year before I retire from this mission with the USMC. Its been a tough rd with all Mikes interference and nonsensense but at the end of today I got the most perfect woman in my life. I wont go in to details of how I let her find her way back, just know she did. I plan to give her the best life she could of ever dreamed of. I throughly enjoy getting back at this puke in this way. She pitied the guy and she dont no more. We have been thru hell and back my princess shines a beacon I cant ignore. I love this girl. In my arms forever she will be in case yall are wondering! EXPOSURE is important when you end the type of silence she has been thru. I believe that Deb is right in saying I am better than the confrontation that she asked me to avoid. I like it, the ways to take the puke down. Hey buddy next time you punch a girl in the face think of your mother/sister. Karma is a bitch and watch your back it can get ugly out there in the drug world, haha I got your number, tracking is great…Beverly, Chelsea, Lynn , Saugus, its a matter of time. PUNK. Remember God is good and you cant win the fight u fkn devil worshiper. You beat a woman, my lady you are one sic fuc. Not for a second did I think she would take you back, just had to get her through her level of compassion for what is right. She got this and so do I for the rest of our lives. Helleva rd. Worth every minute.


    July 26, 2014 at 11:22 pm

  167. And the force is with you. No problem Dave, at all. Homecoming was real buddy. Debbie is the best and so true to our community and loves you man. I got your back with all of this and the truth dont lie. She is true and loves you my man. Tellin it like I should and you ask. I believe in the ending the silience against domestic violence. I was at the scene on Turner, persuading Deb to get that Restraining order back in June of 2012, after Mike broke her bureau trying to get into her bedroom. Drugs and violence shatter a woman and I see that you are both free from all that. She seemed to walk away with more than she left with. She is a beautiful girl with a smile that could buy a sunrise or set, haha my man you got a strong girl who could take you down in any match!! Happy for you my friend. Glad you are HOME. I get all this and why you asked me to support you here. Truth be told. You and Deb are beautiful people. She is a diamond in the sky so catch that falling star. Best my man.

    The Force

    July 29, 2014 at 9:28 pm

  168. thanksnrick, true with all you said. We are in the best place of our lives. The weird looks here need to know my baby girl is captured in arms that hold all the bad moments in her life with the most and absolute resistance. She is happy, smiling with legit presense today. I am lucky to be marring the girl of my dreams. We have moved on from any of this tourture. God is Good.That guy cant win, he is from some devil calling for sure. Mike Costin is one sick fuc, devil like. Dark. All that matters is Deb realizes this and is onto our beautiful, safe and peaceful life. No nonsense . I love this girl more than anyone could ever imagine. I have wanted to tell the puke off so many times but Deb is right in saying NO. My best revenge, Ha ha perp.


    August 2, 2014 at 10:55 pm

  169. Dear small and weird world here on the internet. I am saying goodbye to my sad and pathetic past with all of this. I am the survivor here and its been a bit of turmoil while I recover. I am in that place today and dont chastise my love, Dave for loving me unconditionally…something the Narc, Mike could never figure out. I can honestly say that I have healed from Mikes abuse in the circle of friends I have today and in the the most loving and forgiving arms that hold me together today. Dave has given me my life back and looking forward to spending all my days with my best friend. Whole again thank you David for standing by side, not getting back and speaking to Mike and honoring my wishes like a real man would. I know it took great restraint and believe what you always told me about love and trust. Its between us and I am here, in the present with you. Thank you for loving me…unconditionally and waiting! This post is two fold, bye to my horrid past and welcome to me beautiful future. I believe Dave was right in all of his posts here. He is my knight in shining armor..always there for me. He was wating for me me to done here…I AM. Lucky I am to have found the love of me life hiding under all the abuse I lived.


    August 9, 2014 at 11:08 pm

  170. Let me have the last say here. My and I do mean my fiance got off the ferry looking frazzled. Deb confided in me and thats all I need. I am a cop and already saw the text and had a voice recording on her phone yet she confided in me. Its what real love is. The perp actualized her and I just waited for this very moment. I dealt with this before in training and its the real deal here. I protect what id mine and got it. The dram folk dont know how to react…Mike is the coward and always will be, I remain in the background like a real man will. Patience pays and abusive payoff with all the karma. All I care about is Deb, family and our life forward from here so the spur that guy spins is his own evil karma and I get what I have always wanted here..the most beautiful lady to spend the rest of my life with. I love how she ran to me tonight, He gave her all that and I give her all the best of life. No contest here the guy is a one hell of a dark knight. I read her text and the best of it was bye with all his narc and abusive languauge. The best was when she said like Bill we dont have to react. Neither Mike nor Sean have the balls to enter either of my ladies lives because they are the true cowards..nothing at all to offer and my girl along with my step daughter know this so grow up . Or dont or cant or whatever anyway dont care because we got the best family ties and I get so much outtof Debs text with bye…BYE ya its all perfect wimmmpppyy I love this beautiful lady and her perfect family. Gt on with your fucked up life. done are we, Yup WE You are dealing with WE. The whole damn family that she has and loves and so I. Sitting around the fire and yea we are family from many seasons. I love my girl and the beautiful family she brought to me. I love that we are at the end of the drama that we started with. Sleepy is my baby in my arms. Celebrate..#.our privacy #freedom.


    August 15, 2014 at 10:56 pm

  171. Laughing at the fact the pimp as he calls himself, doesnt think I am real. Just what we wanted in the non dram world. It makes me laugh all the while that the perp thinks I want to stoop to his paying field. Dumb ass I am a CPO and I cant exchange verbal garbage yet I can do it here, freedom of speech. I got the best of you though with the life you trashed and I got to meet the most beautiful soul. Doing this type of work for a while training overseas with the Marines and Community Police work, Detective work pisses me off when the law is unjust but its all good with this case…she found a love like no other and while Mike C should have done time 10 plus for attempted murder strangling my lady, he didnt and does time in his pathetic mind and dose heavy man. Yea fukin kill yourself. Karma is a bitch and seen it at its best, thats how we get through in this line of work. Deb was never going to be a stat, not on my watch…got her, saved her, love her and yea I am real Mike not a social media fan but I am all over Debs Facebook page to which I dont agree but oh yea you two arent friends! Never will be so why does Deb not have a boyfriend? You cant handle the truth the old Deb used to run right back to you so you do know she is taken. In your fked up mind she should be tourtured by you still. She has not called you in close to two years or even motioned to see you and its all because she has a boyfriend that loves her more than you pretended to so wrap your mind around the fact that I do exist and love be in the background cheerin my baby on!!! Bye she said and bye we say, get it I am as real as they come and gave ohhh your ex the best life that you could never compare to. Bye Bye Bye we agree forever no contact no law yea never contact us again#nomoneymikec#karma#couldntcareless!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


    August 16, 2014 at 10:47 pm

  172. Get what you deseve Bud. Every day.


    August 26, 2014 at 10:11 pm

  173. Deb I have been part of your group for some time and saw this article as part of your past. Sorry gf you give advice strong and hard so I am out. This guy posting most recently Dave was or is a cop? He sounds like a keeper gf. Threads here are so frakin hateful. This guy realy loves you girl. The cops up my way relly dont care. Here you go this guy cop whatever has your back, get it girl. Love a man in uniform. Give it up girl, model and sexy couple right here. Good fortune is wat it is. Forget that past real quick and relish what you got from it. You got platinum girl, did you feel any of his pleas? You dont say much here at all. I wish you the best with your new life and love this guy back, wiill you. Let it reign for Gods sake, dont let your past get in the way of your true happiness. Get him or I will sry he Dave is a Romeo.


    August 29, 2014 at 10:53 pm

  174. Freak, never. I dont take in strays so dont get the wrong idea. My lady is real classy. Strong love right here cause God threw her right in my path so I picked her up and ran with her until she spoke back. Ya know what she said while laying in my arms, “I am right where I belong, thank you for saving me” NVD make your days get better but dont go looking on sites like this for a partner. Sickoooosss prey here and how do we know you may be one of them with your interest. Whats real is finding a woman like I did when I was not looking and finding not a day goes by with her not in thought. I am 36 and worked my life away until that miraculous night. The best of my life right here and there is and will be no other my beautiful girl who sleeps in my arms every chance. Hoping she can get through the next 4yrs with me going away but Its a day at atime. The USMC was my life before I met her. IThis guy found his wife, forever is what I found in this beautiful gal. She Deb plans the wedding for my discharge date and well i Comp time is what I am banking on to seal the deal! DV Romeo found his Debulet! I find myself feeling overprotective with her. I find the post skanky DV you are wasting your own time looking me up. I make myself hard to find cause I discard dram. The most visible ghost you will ever meet though. Got all this and its so good for Deb and her, our,yea our fam.


    August 30, 2014 at 11:28 pm

  175. The sad decline, yea truth be said here, right here. I celebrated her 2 yr mark today from the narc. Proud to say that its so good today. Promise I and we made with this mark to say bye to this part of her past. I was there and yea I am still here…what you didnt know and could noy ever control cuz you aint got it in ya. I do tho . With the one I love and as she says baby steps all the way to the alter. Life is great, thanks Mike, best to you , shattering another life but not my baby girls. Thats what guys like you do. Seen it, one too many times and this angel ends up being my defining time. Have a good life, done here with her past. Looking up to where the beauty of my love lies with the sun, moon and stars. Deborah Forever baby. Never looking back with you, only looking forward to what our life together means. Thanks pal.


    August 31, 2014 at 10:23 pm

  176. Cheers from the one who doesnt speak! Thank you to all who spoke out against the violence that I endured. Two years ago today I woke up and realized that not one part of my being…spiritual, emotional could take the abuse not one more second. Calling the cops with every sip of alcohol, every drug deal and every sad moment he(Mike) left me for all of the above and blamed me for not having enough money or fake will to participate and make like the good wife. I believe people are centered in your life for a reason. I was in a sad marriage, violent narc relationship and I meet the love and I honestly mean love…David. This man was absolutely meant for me, we laugh, cry and hold each other tight without jealousy ever. I trust once again my life in my prince or knight in shining armors hands. Thank you david for taking all of this on with all of my family,. I love you more than you will ever know. Bye to this God Awful Site.


    August 31, 2014 at 11:05 pm

  177. Deb, consecutive email and the same site. Fixed it for you, my baby. I finalized her last post with my post. Doesnt matter any how talk every day and she isnt ever looking here again. Be home in January.


    September 5, 2014 at 10:31 pm

  178. She is going to be just fine.Well yea she has been and will be. Coward status with Mike Costin trust me the sheep lies within. Deb has recovered and is one amazing woman.

    DV support

    October 11, 2014 at 10:47 pm

  179. Ya DV I heard her talk at the Falmouth DV ending the silence vigil last night. True inspiration. The FPD gave amazing credit to Deborah.. 1 in 4 women face this shit and 2 get out. Good for you Deborah for speaking out. True survivor right here. The sicckkoo tried to kill her by strangulation and his name is Michael Costin. Drug addict, control fuckin freak. Haha you are goin down loosseerr. There is no redemption for your kind. Lets go viral with this Narc. He is a real sicckko from what I read in police reports. I can only hope you get punched repeatedly in the face and stangled. Grow the fuck up no one really cares that your father who was much like you met his match. real sadness is with the lives lost to real illness. I met Deborah through a DV group and will continue to take you down Michael Costin because its whats right, COWARD

    DV support

    October 11, 2014 at 11:13 pm

  180. Salem Ma Police report aside from Deborahs restimomy. Wow lucky survval skills she is one blessed babe.

    DV support

    October 11, 2014 at 11:21 pm

  181. I loved her account and the fact that she is engaged to a man who values her way.

    DV support

    October 11, 2014 at 11:28 pm

  182. testominy a restimony is one that we have lost. Debbie is a true survior. Marry that guy Dave, girl xoxoxo

    DV support

    October 11, 2014 at 11:35 pm

  183. Ladies thank you as you were tagged in Deborahs testimony with The FPD Vigil against DV. Deborah is an amazing woman with some real positive strength. Good for you Deborah getting out. I have read the horror you have been through Ladies and gents look to Deborah for strengh as she obviosly has overcome some real sadness here and has come out on the upside with an engagement to an exFal Police officer. Good for you Deborah and keep up the positives.

    DV support/Director

    October 12, 2014 at 10:58 pm

  184. Thank you all! The camaign is comming to an end. Thanks for speaking out. For your voice is heard. Dave and I thank you. xoox For all of us, for real as most of this is not:(


    October 30, 2014 at 9:43 pm

  185. I promised to never post here again and its tough for me being clear across the world but I got this girl that keeps me together everyday and yep she is this girl who survived all that perps abuse. She is a kind, honest even she doesnt want to hear, you RE WRONG. She is a compassionate woman who I cannot stop and nor would I want to. She does these crazy things for another like the degerate Mike and I get it yet it stops now. He bilks her empathy, with money and all the bullshit. I had to let all of it go with the chance if I retaliate I could lose everything with the most impotant, her, Deb. I let it go and let her survive with me holding her every stitch together. HOME with my LOVE earlier than expected. I will be home for Christmas and ending her nightmare for ever. Do you all read this shit? The puke is that. Never gonna win bud. Truth be told.


    November 26, 2014 at 10:32 pm

  186. Conflict and resolution is what we are about. Promise to say bye to her past an I cannot wait to get home. Baby this is my way to take it all back. Sorry my lady that I caused this kinda controversy for you yet little lady it is with me that you grew to the big, little girl that I love. HOME soon and thank you for your honesty and big gal growth. This girl is worth every last ummph and tear from across the way. Proud of YOU Deb. Thats why I expose the fuk here. You have made it past all that and me too. Sorry again but it is neccessary for me. One day we will never look here again with all the memories we are about to make. LOVE LOVE my LADY. BYE to all this bullshit. Try to live on Mike I cant say I dont wish you some real shit cause its about you, Sorrry Baby trying to keep it real. Soon, you wont have to think of this again. My last tour, finallyyyyyy!! Gettin thru with you. Your and my beautiful life ahead finally, we are going to do this my lady. This has not been easy but thank you for letting me expose the puke. My only retaliation..freedom of speech!! HAHA Truth be told.Never make light of violence and what this article is about. Abuse and survival. Seen it growing up but never saw this konda of recovery. She is amazing, my girl. Love you Deb


    November 30, 2014 at 12:10 am

  187. Just wondering why is he still lurking in her path. Sounds dangerous after reading this. Good luck pal, Dave with stopping what seems like a guy destined to damage her, Deb? God bless you and her. The world sees enough violence Good you are a Certified officer of the people and serve our country, take care of your lady and yourself. Regards there

    The People

    November 30, 2014 at 10:29 pm

  188. I have little internet access from where I am in the Persian Gulf but thanks The People . I get to talk to her very little and believe that she is safe. Friends watch out and she is busy and home every day and night safe and sound. We are the best of friends to which she reminds me of often, even though in time it will be more. I want to marry this girl and know her space will give that to me so I am not goin anywhere anytime soon. Cant wait to get back home with this girl I have got to know and love. I picked the wrong career and time to be away. She will not be some kind of fallen angel, she is my ANGEL every day. I will not give up on hope for our futeure. Here I am Deb, again doing exactly waht you not wished for. Sorry my lady I am goin outa my mind. Love Love Love U Know that.


    December 2, 2014 at 9:17 pm

  189. I know Deb real well from the online hotline that she hosts. Dave or David she adores you and believe me she has no thought of returning to that nightmare. She is just living the life with choices that she feels will help another. She does it everyday and really has no vested interest in this guy Mike. She just has a heart of gold and has not a thought of letting you ouut of her life. She adores you and we cant wait to meet you so she will be whole as she says I am missin a part of me. Dave make the dreams real my pal. Cant wait to meet you after the first of the year. Stay tough out there, she is more than ok. Thank you from all of us.


    December 4, 2014 at 10:25 pm

  190. Thanks, friends. Not wanting to correspond here with the upset that I caused from afar yet I hate the guy and yea karma at its best. It comes in many ways and for me this works. If ya all knew. All anyone needs to know is I love this girl and she is doing so completelty fine. The woman that I fell in love with amazes me every dam day. Friends you are lucky to have her wisdom and my stupidity keeps talking here but its good to expose her past cause it doesnt matter anymore she grew so far beyond all that victim stat. She speaks loud and her voice is heard. The girl is so amazing and we are so lucky to have her and he will never get her back at all. Great friends hang in there with my lady.


    December 5, 2014 at 11:06 pm

  191. Friends reunion next week at The Falmouth Yacht Club. I am coming home so early and cannot wait, meet us there with the homecoming . I blocked Him from her life and got my ways so no worry with his bullshit. Theres my lady in the lighthouse seeing me home. 3 days baby…glad you are ok with all this and so close to protecting you forever. Sorry you had to endure his pleas. I get it and you will never worry again baby girl. There is no way now to get to you. Tough run this time and my last. I am in Michigan awaiting transition…finally. In The U.S and nothing will stand in my way. I am so happy to get home to my lady, its all I can think bout. I think I finally grew up and close to 40 with the career behind me now and real estate Deb and I are goin sailing. Blessed am I feeling with the life I finally found. God Bless ya all and even you Mike. Shes good and the best wife. Carry on cause I got the best of her life and my life intertwined. SOUL MATES.


    December 6, 2014 at 11:00 pm

  192. HOME Thankful OVER Forever ETERNITY many words yet one comes to mind. Blocked in all ways Mike. Bye Bye, I am home and not ever leaving again so ?????


    December 11, 2014 at 1:01 am

  193. Welcome home. Nice to catch up with you all at The FYC. Caught the past and congrats to both. Comment here to support DV awareness. Seem like a very loving couple and thinking good for you Dave standing up and Deb its a tough life with a cops livelihood and his travels yet seems like what works for you both. You two seem so happy so good luck and let all this bad happening be behing you. Go have it USMC congrats on your retirement Dave. Hold onto your lady forever and proud to have met you both. Read the post and comments, doesnt seem like either of your life. Dont give it a second thought, new beginnings with no need to even mention all this. LOVE


    December 25, 2014 at 12:11 am

  194. Why do all these comments read as if they’re written by the same person? Suspiciously similar grammar, syntax, phrasing, and spelling errors. Hmmm. Or maybe that’s just how all of you are taught English up there, in the Northeast.

    Casual Observer

    December 27, 2014 at 1:10 pm

  195. Causual Observer I am not from the North East and from what I know there is a slang to there english. Spectators are as dumb as the rest with this post. Comment on whats real here. I follow this with every post as Deb is my family and i with so many friends and family are relieved that she made it through what many would not. Did you really really even think about what you are posting, smart ass fake english teacher, hahaha. Dream buddy about how you are some kinda good person posting on Domestic Violence and the fact that a mother, beautiful person came close to death at the hands of Mike Costin. Now hows that for English, sadist?


    December 28, 2014 at 12:04 am

  196. That person, Casual observer is a perfect idiot. He balks, ” hmm” like he is supposed to be some English genius. Who is he to think anyone that cares for Deb really wants his laughable input and wtf is this about The North East, poser, get a life bud and I believe this guy knows Deb and is a jealous prick so put this in your hat from the North East and grow up, really. I know a few things about syntax, grammar and phrasing. Deb and I used to teach together. Reality says that you have fallen on the wrong page and you are looking like a stalker idiot is about the story line here. Edit some other source, not a DV page. Morality issue.

    Report Card on the Fake Casual Observer

    December 28, 2014 at 12:28 am

  197. Even though I lost Deb, my lovely lady…I take glory in knowing this puke is in jail. Assault and conspiracy. Need I say more? Karma.

    The real deal

    January 18, 2015 at 11:35 pm

  198. Happy ending.

    She wrote no more...Dave and Deb

    February 21, 2015 at 12:00 am

  199. Its good news Dave and Deb! Kudos from the DV Family. Whats infamiliar is the narcissitic trend on a site that directly relates to Domestic Violence. Its seems that Narcs are more so drawn here and keep with your current state of happiness. Thanks Dave and Debby for speaking out on horrific abuse and finding peace in your current lives. There is hope, thank you for speaking out and recognize you are both beautiful people. Hopes for that beautiful horizon that you both speak of, seems it happening for you both. There is a saying that once that bond is….which should never be broken. Our hope for you two, Dave and Debby.

    More on DV with suppoort

    April 21, 2015 at 10:03 pm

  200. Thank you for letting us girls invade your space while youre away Dave. You have given deb the princess life that she deserves. Great home and Deb loves you with more respect than you realize. Be home with her soon. This story astonishes me with an amazing love that prevails. We all love and respect you for loving her the way that you have. Safety out there and get back soon, I hear that you are on the last leg with the military…3 months to your retirement. Good days ahead for you and your lovely fiance, my best friend and family. Waiting to meet you, wedding this year??????? Finally. She is ready and loves you so forget this horrible past she endured and the upset with every read. Most dont make any sense. Just had to convey my opinion here. Its her that we have recovered with your help and expose the disgusting devil of a creature she once let into her life…Mike C. She had a really bad breakdown and for once in her life she landed in the right arms. Wishes, prayers and gratitude for being there for her. She is so freakin happy. Keep in mind that you bought a whole bunch of sisterhood with our Deb. Best Dave and my beautiful sister Deb. Love that I can get rid of that horrific past with this post cause thats what we can do for each other. Speak out loud and cherish every moment. Grateful Dave.

    Love and friendship

    May 3, 2015 at 10:56 pm

  201. Thanks for the comments on a post that conveys the abuse that my angel endured. I am on my last leg of my career with The USMC , hard to digest. The most recent comments are true and real. Its been a jaggard journey with all of the ups and downs with more ups. I will be on homeland with a career of 18 years behind me in 2 months. Serviced The USMC and The Cape and Islands relief task force. My early retirement will be somewhere with Deb, her children whom she adores and the future that I could not have ever forseen. Lets just say that I miss my lady and thank you all for the most blessed comments. Forever I will hold my lady and there will be none of this nonsense in her life. Her kids have suffered and with Mothers Day tomorrow I am hoping Deb and her children…grandchildren shine on with love in their most precious hearts . God Bless my love and all you Moms in every way, out there. I love you Deb and had to air here, which I know you understand. We are almost THERE! 67 days…………….

    Dave USMC

    May 9, 2015 at 11:06 pm

  202. The last post from me on the “Sad Decline” thank you to all of you that found this site, fam and our friends. Just talked with Deb and she reports the calls continue so I will be dealing sooner than later. I respected Deb’s wishes in the past and we decided that a intervention needs to take precedent, sooner than later. There have been times here where I had to post to bring the Karma where it belongs yet I am not sure it reaches enough. My love, Deb who I respect more than anyone asked me to stop several times which also interrupted our relationship, I had to expose here and will everywhere. My last post here includes the reason that you think I am not real Mike. I respect my fiance the way you never did, I speak quiet here and behind the scenes so that I may help quietly destroy you. We have had our words, face to face I have many afriend on the force and think about it…watch your where to run and haaha no where to hide. I got so much on you and thats how I play. Yeas this is for Mike and please friends and family, do not reply. he will see her reality in a few days…early retirement. I am hoping Mike with myself never meet again and no threats here. Let it die with my last post cause I am coming home early…7 days and counting and we can have that sit down if you continue. Hoping my Fiance is right and we can continue onward. If I have the quote right from 2008, Grow up. I am more of a man than you could ever be. I have learned so much restraraint from Deb and I am all the better…REAL MAN. Your an idiot man, best believe.

    Dave USMC

    June 10, 2015 at 9:50 pm

  203. Nobody Wins Here. I feel so bad for Michael Jr. I lost my Mom to illness 20 yrs ago and I’m still crying. Watching your Dad get murdered ruined him. Pick up what’s left Michael and move on. Best Wishes and I mean that


    June 15, 2015 at 10:13 pm

  204. Have to Deb and the rest who follow.This is for Metalmouthjeff: I get where your thoughts are with the sympathy for a guy who beats his girlfriend senseless and watched the same with his Dad. What are you thinking, beyond the old “boy network” I lost my mother to domestic, The victim here, Deb, lost her sister and I have come to realize its not that simple to stop the violence yet to stop those who continue the violence and prey on vunerable victims. My Deb has been that victim through our 2+ years together and I have been the ghost trying to keep her together with a career that keeps me away with The USMC and a demanding job as an officer of the law. This is about to change for me with my early retirement and my delayed homecoming within less than a month. I have heard Mike has been around and Deb is safe therefore my lady is fine. She is not sure of our relationship which is alright as it has to be. I did not get into this complicated situation to say I won, Metalmouth. Just adore this beautiful lady like he should never had a chance to be in her life. I excuse mistakes with part of my profession as an PO USMC but come on buddy…the only person that shouldnt lose, despite her thoughts is Deb. She wont because I get her and cant wait to get home to see where we proceed. Keep hanging on to no change with the sadness over losing your mother and Mike losing his father and a country at war losing so many brave men and women and all the fucked up domestic violence cases where its called a crime of passion….thank the good Lord for retirement either way…this mission and many before taught me to zero in on compassion and that exact word I found with Debs caring for a guy who nearly destroyed her. Glad I got to catch up while its about to be sun-up or rise here and I can only understand how a prisoner feels being restricted from access as I have been yet I serve my country . I get the compassion you feel and the kindness my Deb feels so its all ok but not ok to excuse. Some damaging circumstances have occured in last few days yet I get all of it because I have been through it as a kid watching my Mom take my Dad back everytime. Not happening to my lady and my best friend. Thats what love is……..I mean no harm….just a guy in love with a whole lot of empathy is why I have not reacted. Mike get your shit so to speak, together and carry on From my convo with Deb I get it and best there kid. Time to get past.

    Dave USMC

    June 19, 2015 at 11:42 pm

  205. Surprise, Home, quiet and its going to be this way for a real long time. Forever y’all. Appreciate this site where new beginnings and hope began. Our life holds promise…forgiveness, closure and I am the man who has won with all this bullshit behind. Yea I won and this site will never matter. Forward, over and out…..

    Dave USMC

    June 22, 2015 at 10:16 pm

  206. I have just come across this ‘discussion’/one sided boring rant from Dave. It seems his focus is still on Mike after all these years.
    Deb a woman in her 40’s entered into a relationship with a very damaged young man, was he nineteen at the time? Deb has stated that she works in mental health. Deb was certainly a victim of domestic abuse. However should her professional experience not given her some insight into the way this relationship may end up.
    I also find it very interesting that Mike has not engaged in this non sensical rubbish.
    The real victim here is a young man who suffered a horrific start in life. Witnessing the death of his beloved father was unfortunately just another terrible event in an already extremely difficult and traumatic life. Deb engaged (in my opinion) in an inappropriate relationship and brought extra complications into Mikes life. Leave him alone, he is already dealing with enough besides being chastised over and over by what seems a very unhinged man.

    Irish relative

    October 5, 2015 at 6:43 am

  207. I believe Deb made maybe 3 comments here. Inquaries to this site reveal mock comments. Relevant information reveals this site states abuse in severity and I have known the victim (Deb) over the past few years so I find it odd that most recent and past comments would question how a kind soul let a family so filled with hate into her life. The way I see it is that Mike and sean wormed their way into her life through her daughter and she was left with the ramifications. I know Deb and really she is not a victim. I agree with poor Mike though, he is the victim of his own doing…isnt he 27? Doing the same crimes? Isnt Sean the Dad that cries and doesnt do a damn thing to see his son or expend a dime to help his son? A deadbeat. I can contest that Deb did not enter into an inappropriate relationship with this guy. She was trying to help in a time she was in her own crisis and her daughters crisis took a toll on the finality. I am Debs best friend so know the real victim/survivor are Deb and her daughter.Deb is never a victim…if you only knew this lady, mother who cant see anyone in the light of love above her chidren. Disgust in your comments is all. He had her compassion and take a hard look at what he did with it, this article speaks truth.

    Dave USMC

    November 14, 2015 at 12:43 am

  208. Dave, you are clearly a man of very low intelligence. Your opinion means zero to me.

    Irish Relative

    November 16, 2015 at 1:45 pm

  209. Not a matter of my intellegence here with your off handed and well, unhinged comment. What you fail to understand is that beyond my jurisdiction as an officer and a military agent is I have the last word. Take a look at your Relatives, record where recently he has had a few arrests is all. The arms of law enforcement can and will reach far. They call it Karma these days. Where you decided to rehash old stuff is your doing and glad I can still be in Debs life where she needs the continued support. Healing in many ways and it begins with never giving up or walking away from the one that you love. The difference between Mike and myself is that I could not ever imagine, ever raising a hand the way he brutalized this perfect lady. It makes all of us sick to our stomache when she talks at her conferences and me every day when i see her scar that she overshadows so beautifully well. While I may not be in Debs life the way that I wished and planned, I love her and always will be right by her side as the best friends that we are. Not a time goes by with me not protecting the most precious love that I found so while I have put myself out here…continue to bring it on. From what I see through surviellence is not so kind for you folk. Keep me posted though through your convoluted ways. Its a good idea to support an addict on welfare, keep it coming because its my calling to take this shit down. Didnt you ask me to…the unhinged man and all? Where is he at now……………..

    Dave USMC

    November 17, 2015 at 11:16 pm

  210. Deb brought complications into this young mans life, quote and unquote. Lets analyze this from a COPS perspective: An oxymoron. She with her life at stake helps a guy who substantially is brutualizing her. Isnt that what this DV article is about? Is this not why for once he went to jail for hurting her? I am a COP and a MA and finally realize the simple truth that freaks peak here. Who really condondes this article or abuse in any way. Yes the perp went to jail with conviction for nearly killing my fiance . Last words???????????

    Dave USMC

    November 20, 2015 at 11:48 pm

  211. The more I read the more sick I get. I have been to many DV calls, accidents, robberies ect yet there is so much aftermath here. My part is the known, EXPOSURE. Who the hell are you all that post in the perps defense? Since the day I met Deb with her heart broken from trying to save this guy, I saw only a kind soul. That call changed my life. I had spent many years in servive as a Military and Police officer and what you all need to understand is that it doesnt matter how, when or where so if it happened its a conviction. There is a conviction here which should be upgraded to attempted murder by strangulation. The poor fellow that you speak of is the next actual conviction for murder. I will save my ladies life with each time he attempts to get in contact. He can’t anymore though. I fixed that on every level here so hoping he attempts so I can lock him up myself. Just looking to the North Shore friends on the force to keep doing their job and Mike, himself to do his. Isnt he the star here? I love this lady and will stand by her through all. Sad that she cared for such a evil fuck as he is. The guy damaged my lady yet he is a true surivor. She just tried to help him so stop your nonsense as if they were lovers. Its as if someone robbed your wife or girlfriend. How would you feel? I will keep on posting as long as I can expose the truth with what Deb endured. Keep it coming is all here for now. Always a watchful eye where My lady is concerned. evil doers feel free to post…thats what you are with your narcissitic posts. I can see who you are,.Know your emeny well.

    Dave USMC

    November 29, 2015 at 11:40 pm

  212. Irish relative: the real victim, relationship, her professioal experience should have told her,A damaged man, Mike hasnt engaged, while he cant read yet no fault of the victim here. Are you fucking serious with your synopsis like a mental health professional gone very wrong? Did you read the post from the beginning or are you that illerate? Deb never entered into a relationship with the sociopath and didnt ask for the ramifications that went along with her trying to save a person in need. Today she knows the difference. You look bad here and well you are.

    Dave USMC

    February 20, 2016 at 12:02 am

  213. Kill him, Dave. Do it. You know you want to. pop. pop. pop.


    February 23, 2016 at 9:55 pm

  214. First off I’d like to say how disgusted I am with deb and honestly it’s just sad what she’s become, she is a very sick sick person. I’m sure this will not be a surprise to some and it’s sad that I have to waste my time on this but it needs to be said. Deb, Deborah, Dave, Riss and a few other random posts are all deb mckie posting them she is embarrassing my family and no one wants anything to do with her. She has always loved attention and is known to be a pathological liar she is a very evil person. She has ruined many people’s lives staring back when she was a teacher in Lynn MA when she accused another man of viciously raping her because she didn’t know what else to do or say when she got caught cheating by her husband at the time the man didnt go to jail because it was dismissed because the story deb told just didnt make sense and the police knew it was a lie. A few years later while working at swampscott high she began to get very close with a student so close that other teachers noticed. deb was reported but all that happened was the two would be separated for a day deb is a very good at lying and when they asked the student he said nothing. Later on that student began to date debs daughter marrissa who also went to swampscott high. After school was out for the summer that student Sean costin and deb got very close and Sean expressed his feelings in a letter that her husband would find later on and think that Sean’s brother mike wrote it to her but back to that summer. After receiving the letter from Sean deb told Sean that she had feeling also a few days later befor Sean’s 16th birthday they started to engage in a sexual relationship Deb would also always buy Sean alcohol when ever he’d like this went on for months. Deb would start to talk to Michael costin after debs daughter marrissa caught deb and sean in bed together. Deb was also buying alcohol for mike who was underage and also having sex with him.
    There is a legal case going on right now against deb for the crimes she has committed against Sean when he was 15. Deb claims that Michael has a child with her which is not true and that Sean has a child with her daughter which is also not true. While Sean was away marrissa slept with several guys and contracted hurpes from her friend Rob Hannigan and got pregnant from one of the men. Sean had a trust fund so marrissa would say that Sean was the father which isn’t true and the dna test shows that he is not. to this day there is no father on the birth certificate.
    Deb mckie is an evil sick indivial with some serious mental problem and also a servere drinking problem she is known by many to be a pathological liar. All around this is just sad and I hope she can get the help she needs. The mckie family has and does not want anything to do with deb. deb please get the help u so truly need
    The mckie family

    Family member of the mckie and friends of the costin's

    April 3, 2016 at 3:33 pm

  215. ooooh lawdy! the shit is gonna hit the fan now! #sippintea

    Lucy Anna Allie Gateur

    April 5, 2016 at 6:46 pm

  216. Its so disheartening that the person posting as a family member of the McKies (not true) continues the distortions. What I extracted from this is exactly what any mental health professional would: Simply a narcissist has a distorted view on their victims realities and have to be the only reason that there is turmoil in their life. Its about control and when the victim gets free from the control and abuse the Narc has to spread wild rumors to deflect from any accountability. The article itself speaks a truth and the rest of these comments are mere opinions. What I know is that the family had devastating circumstances that they have been able to heal from and overcome. The Costin family certainly didnt help, just look at the emotional and physical abuse…Sean and Mike have records and the law doesnt lie. A scorn Narcissist with all his rage and glory from continuing his distorted view remains unchanged, proving they cannot actually change. say what you will and know The Mckies are healed with their truths. The Costin family only hindered this family from moving on sooner. They are cohesive despite the remarks. Keep in mind its the Costins way of life to destroy others…read the article if you are in question. I will unfollow this post as of this last comment.

    Advocate reporting

    April 17, 2016 at 9:03 pm

  217. Deb you are a sick person, you really need help. Honestly tho it’s to late for you your never going to change. You are who you are alway have an always will. THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE. God help/bless you

    Family member of the mckie

    May 4, 2016 at 7:27 pm

  218. She did need help indeed. Help to fend off all the abuse that she allowed for starters and that she did! The only change she needed was believing in herself and speaking the truth that set her free so put that in your glorified hat and realize that God has blessed her all along. Free from all the narcissim and living the most beautiful life she deserves. Dont forget to look at the article though when you post all that drama. It does speak for itself with a conviction of abuse. The part that is confusing is that it states she was his girlfriend? Obsession maybe, a confused individual that took advantage of a woman who attempted to help him? It was his statement. At any rate wounds have healed and still compelled to share truth for what myself and all who love Deb will reveal for the record and for what its worth out here with the www. Just keeping it real. Accounts of a family destroyed with so many distortions? We can leave the guess work up to the forensic professionals. Again a narriccist version of accounts with great and grave distortion can only aid in concealing the most weak and dark side of the perpertraitor…We know the truth. Nice essay though.


    June 15, 2016 at 10:48 pm

  219. Genuinely no matter if someone doesn’t know afterward its up to other people that
    they will help, so here it occurs.


    January 11, 2017 at 7:59 am

  220. Deb McKie, we have looked everywhere for “Dave” and made several phone calls to FPD, BPD, NPD and investigated any participation in the USMC. It is concluded that Dave is your alter ego and that you are a bipolar schizophrenic that pushed poor Mike to the limit and caused him to go to jail. You need psychiatric help. You are more evil than any poster on this site.

    Steve Costin P.I.

    August 11, 2017 at 4:18 pm

  221. I’m embarrassed with myself for spending the last 2 hours reading these ridiculous comments. Dave/Deb give us more! Update please? Haha


    December 18, 2018 at 1:01 am

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